So I think I'm in love for the first real time in my life...
It's complicated and can't work between us, we both know this.
I've never chased a chick before but after we both had our falling out and I set her up with her current bf, who is ultimately better for her and her future and can give her emotional support in a way I cant, afterwards I told her I cared about her, wanted her happy, and jsut wanted to be her friend and be there for her since she's had a super fucked up life, and that I did it because I knew for a fact she's better off with him (nice guy) and not a player like me.
Well she's been with him for about two weeks now, and we talk a little every now and then mostly us arguing and me trying to jsut be her friend, and her getting all jealous and trying to make me jealous and fuck with my head.
Today though, we had it out, about 10 hours long of us arguing via text and basically we've come to an understanding, of each other, our needs, and our individual circumstances, she's going to cheat on him. We didn't say that, but reading between the lines we both know it's going to happen eventually...
So in conclusion if you can argue with a chick for 10 hours solid and neither of you give up, I'm going to say it's real.
For some fuckin reason I want to protect this girl, and care for her and all that bullshit, but I still have my own priorities, which need to be filled. Finally she understands this.
We both have severe trust issues which makes this whole thing kinda shitty.
Anyway I'm a lot happier now and that's a good burden off.
Just felt the need to share this figured maybe it'll help somebody here.
It's complicated and can't work between us, we both know this.
I've never chased a chick before but after we both had our falling out and I set her up with her current bf, who is ultimately better for her and her future and can give her emotional support in a way I cant, afterwards I told her I cared about her, wanted her happy, and jsut wanted to be her friend and be there for her since she's had a super fucked up life, and that I did it because I knew for a fact she's better off with him (nice guy) and not a player like me.
Well she's been with him for about two weeks now, and we talk a little every now and then mostly us arguing and me trying to jsut be her friend, and her getting all jealous and trying to make me jealous and fuck with my head.
Today though, we had it out, about 10 hours long of us arguing via text and basically we've come to an understanding, of each other, our needs, and our individual circumstances, she's going to cheat on him. We didn't say that, but reading between the lines we both know it's going to happen eventually...
So in conclusion if you can argue with a chick for 10 hours solid and neither of you give up, I'm going to say it's real.
For some fuckin reason I want to protect this girl, and care for her and all that bullshit, but I still have my own priorities, which need to be filled. Finally she understands this.
We both have severe trust issues which makes this whole thing kinda shitty.
Anyway I'm a lot happier now and that's a good burden off.
Just felt the need to share this figured maybe it'll help somebody here.