Tell me what you guys think on my theory of inevitability.
Accept inevitability. A concept I've been following for quite some time. Some people are afraid to fly in airplanes because of the potential threat of an accident, dying. Surely, most don't even think about that factor. Yet there are people like myself, who do consider, yeah, I might die, but I'm going to do it anyways. You can take any scenario and turn it into your last. Think about it, you walk outside, someone's in a blind anger, shoots you, done. You're in school, that one kid who got bullied pulls a Columbine, and you're gone. But you can look at those threats and possibilities and say, no, I'm not going to take a step outside, or I'm not going to go to school anymore.
Or you can look at them and say, so be it. I may die, I may not. Accept the inevitability that you may die at any given moment, and live with it. This applies not only to death, but several other concepts. Most people reading this are adolescents, granted maybe a few exceptions. "It's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all". If the reason why you won't engage in a relationship is because you're afraid of getting hurt, accept the inevitability and do it. It's not the end of the world, losing someone you were attached to, unless YOU make it that way. It's like the saying, I'm responsible for what I say, not how you respond to it. How you handle the result/consequence of something is how YOU handle it. It's destine to happen, no matter what.
Every single action comes with it's consequences. Whether good or bad, you must accept the possibility of both fates. If something has happened in the past, quit dreading it for so damn long. As long as you understand the concept, that it was inevitable, that it was going to happen no matter what, you will move on. Sometimes it's just the fact that it did happen, not why it happened.
Accept inevitability. A concept I've been following for quite some time. Some people are afraid to fly in airplanes because of the potential threat of an accident, dying. Surely, most don't even think about that factor. Yet there are people like myself, who do consider, yeah, I might die, but I'm going to do it anyways. You can take any scenario and turn it into your last. Think about it, you walk outside, someone's in a blind anger, shoots you, done. You're in school, that one kid who got bullied pulls a Columbine, and you're gone. But you can look at those threats and possibilities and say, no, I'm not going to take a step outside, or I'm not going to go to school anymore.
Or you can look at them and say, so be it. I may die, I may not. Accept the inevitability that you may die at any given moment, and live with it. This applies not only to death, but several other concepts. Most people reading this are adolescents, granted maybe a few exceptions. "It's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all". If the reason why you won't engage in a relationship is because you're afraid of getting hurt, accept the inevitability and do it. It's not the end of the world, losing someone you were attached to, unless YOU make it that way. It's like the saying, I'm responsible for what I say, not how you respond to it. How you handle the result/consequence of something is how YOU handle it. It's destine to happen, no matter what.
Every single action comes with it's consequences. Whether good or bad, you must accept the possibility of both fates. If something has happened in the past, quit dreading it for so damn long. As long as you understand the concept, that it was inevitable, that it was going to happen no matter what, you will move on. Sometimes it's just the fact that it did happen, not why it happened.
