Are you interested in arguments?

vidhyaprakash · Aug 8, 2011

Arguments between partners is quite common in life, no relationship exists without arguments. Try your maximum to avoid unwanted arguments, There is nothing wrong in arguing for important and good things and if you are right, don't give up your arguments. At the same time, if you are wrong, try to adjust with your partner and follow his/her good suggestion to avoid argument

Argument is good, if the reason is noble and the result will give some good thing, otherwise avoid it, unnecessary arguments don't give any good things to you. Some arguments will cause a big issue in your family, so be careful while arguing and if you come to know that the argument will give some problem to you, try your maximum to avoid it and compromise with your partner to avoid it

dwhizz · Aug 8, 2011

Having an arguments with other allows you to know what runs to the mind of that person. Argument in an issue would balance everything, both sides of parties are open and ends up with good closure. I go for arguments but not to the extent that it would piss off the other party. I want arguments that is calm and with no physical things involved and words that are not pleasurable.

anjville · Aug 9, 2011

Argument is an exchange of thoughts in an intellectual way and I think it is a diplomatic way. It only shows that human as we are, we are entitled to express about our own ideas and opinions, thus we result into argumentation. Argument should be in a civilize way as if you are trying to reach out your point to your partner or to the person involved. However, if a party refuses to accept your views and close-minded, then arguing would be a waste of time and useless. Each should be equally open with each other to resolve the issue and should also be calm to reach for a solution. It should be in a win-win situation where no one is compromised!

chanx · Aug 9, 2011

I think I am not interested in arguments coz I dont like to make small things big with argument and specially when it comes to partner I dont even argue with ma girlfren. If she wanna then I always leave that to her.

erickjose191984 · Aug 9, 2011

No matter what the discussion that starts an argument the most important thing to remember is
1. Remain Calm at all times.
2. Don't raise your voice
3. Listen to the other person.(Don't interrupt or Interject your opinion while they are talking)
4. State your opinion clearly and intelligently.(Don't talk fast and make sure you pronounce words correctly)
5. If the other person becomes upset to the point they start yelling, then just walk away. Leaving them to stew in their own anger sometimes lets them reflect on how calm you were and in doing so they realize you were right all along

rob50 · Aug 9, 2011

when my partner starts arguments then i never step back. I always counter react with my gf to give her a sh*t when she argues coz i dont like that.

polarbeer · Aug 9, 2011

vidhyaprakash said:
Arguments between partners is quite common in life, no relationship exists without arguments. Try your maximum to avoid unwanted arguments, There is nothing wrong in arguing for important and good things and if you are right, don't give up your arguments. At the same time, if you are wrong, try to adjust with your partner and follow his/her good suggestion to avoid argument

Argument is good, if the reason is noble and the result will give some good thing, otherwise avoid it, unnecessary arguments don't give any good things to you. Some arguments will cause a big issue in your family, so be careful while arguing and if you come to know that the argument will give some problem to you, try your maximum to avoid it and compromise with your partner to avoid it

There's nothing wrong with arguments as long as both parties maintain respect for the other person. Problem arises when the argument becomes personal and one of the parties refuses to give in or they both fail to come up with a compromise because this would leave one of the parties a feeling of losing and some people don't just take it lightly. So from a silly argument, it becomes blown up and may even lead to more trouble.

MsRaintree · Aug 9, 2011

I don't want argument. If I feel I need to say something, I would say it and if they wont take it, I will stop. I wont get to the point of exerting my view wherein it will result to a heated argument. If a level-headed person doesn't share the same idea as mine, he should just stress out his point the smart way without ever having to create annoying response. I will respect his view as he will respect mine. From there, we should have been able to express what's our point that will help us better understand each other and earn respect.

maple · Aug 9, 2011

I believe in healthy arguments but not in dirty ones which will end in split..Me and my husband used to argue in some matters and try to understand each others negatives..

darrrling · Aug 9, 2011

Arguments are okay. As a couple, It'll make your relationship much stronger. But if it is so frequent and a bit emotionally or physically violent, then it's unhealthy anymore and you should try avoiding each other first, think deeply about the things you argue about and give space.

rodmarfc · Aug 9, 2011

Yeah a healthy & friendly argument is very interesting coz this will bring out your ideas & it will help bring out truth

Woody_mybb_import8770 · Aug 9, 2011

Sometimes arguments break our relationship instead of making. If we argue in small small words then our relationship is soon to break.

armarasrar1 · Aug 9, 2011

Well Arguing to such important and beneficial things give you more comfort and interest than arguing to unwanted things so in my view try to stop unwanted arguments

khare1005 · Aug 9, 2011

i try to avoid theses arguments as long as i can but most often i loose my temper and drop into arguing.i have been facing this trouble from quite a while and i do know the bad impact its showing on us.i try my level best not to drop in any kind of arguments but still i have many with my partner.

A K Rao · Aug 9, 2011

When we are two different individuals we are natural to have difference in opinions as far as the life is concerned! I don't mind having arguments so far they are healthy logical and useful for solving a purpose! Thanks !

jany · Aug 11, 2011

vidhyaprakash said:
Arguments between partners is quite common in life, no relationship exists without arguments. Try your maximum to avoid unwanted arguments, There is nothing wrong in arguing for important and good things and if you are right, don't give up your arguments. At the same time, if you are wrong, try to adjust with your partner and follow his/her good suggestion to avoid argument

Argument is good, if the reason is noble and the result will give some good thing, otherwise avoid it, unnecessary arguments don't give any good things to you. Some arguments will cause a big issue in your family, so be careful while arguing and if you come to know that the argument will give some problem to you, try your maximum to avoid it and compromise with your partner to avoid it

Nonsense arguments never gives me excitement so I am not interested in it.
If it is really important and need some action... I will go for it until everthing will be settled too.

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