Breaking the guy code ?

[FeaR]

Well I dated this chick for 8 months okay I broke up with her to get back with my Ex that I dated for 4 years etc. So I'm back with my ex and I find out that my friend I knew for like 8 years has been hanging out with the girl I dated for 8 months. Do you think that kinda violates the guy code? Even though I dumped her ? Let me remind you they weren't friends before we dated.

Opinions thoughts ?

 

[Slacker]

There is a very clear standard in the man code. Let me paraphrase sub part b section 13

"One shall not date another persons ex girl if they are:
1. Friends
2. Family
3. Room mates
4. Certain Co-Workers.

There is a loop hole to this standard, If the person had enough respect and consideration to approach the former boy friend and ask and or inform him that he is going to attempt to speak to her. If he were to go about it like a MAN then he would of had a foot to stand on, but since he decided to go about it like a BITCH, not only is he breaking the man code, but the BITCH code as well.

 

[FeaR]

There is a very clear standard in the man code. Let me paraphrase sub part b section 13

"One shall not date another persons ex girl if they are:
1. Friends
2. Family
3. Room mates
4. Certain Co-Workers.

There is a loop hole to this standard, If the person had enough respect and consideration to approach the former boy friend and ask and or inform him that he is going to attempt to speak to her. If he were to go about it like a MAN then he would of had a foot to stand on, but since he decided to go about it like a BITCH, not only is he breaking the man code, but the BITCH code as well.

Yeah he def did it like behind my back etc I don't give a fuck about her its cool but he didn't even approach me about it and when I confronted him over text he didn't even have the balls to text back.

I was just curious if I had the right to be pissed about it for the fact he was considered a close friend.

 

[scoop]

I agree with slacker, lol. that is a very good explanation of the man code.

 

[Slacker]

now, the girl I am with now was dating a kid I was friends with in high school, he only hmu when he needed some body beat up for money, or for bud after we graduated. I did not consider that a friend so I made my move after they were all ready broken up for a while. I considered him a client or aquantice. So there for I did not break the man code lol. I would be pissed if one of my niggas hooked up with my girl if we ever broke up. I feel as if the person in question deserves one free face shot with no retaliation as punishment. If need be I will send you the PDF file with the coupon.

 

[FeaR]

I'm going to just say forget him and leave him as the dead beat he is isn't worth the trouble. I already told him that he is pathetic and to never hmu again so no need to go further.

 

[Slacker]

I have done that with more people then I can count on 20 peoples fingers man. Its the best thing to do sometimes. Everyone was my homie when I was hustling but when I go legit they shit talk lol. Fuck em, its better to let go of trash and move forward with the good.