Divorced

Why need to divorce?there's a couple want to do divorce because the guy have an affair,and they have kids..why they want to divorce if they can fix a problem and for the happiness of their kids to have a complete family?

At the beginning of a relationship - in the loved up state - all we look for - in fact all we see - are our similarities. Usually, just around a two year period, we start seeing the differences and wonder where they came from.
We also put on our 'best' face in the beginning when we should just let people see who we really are. If you hate football, tell him, don't pretend that you love it.

We don't ask each other enough important life questions, and so go into marriage semi-blind. It's a huge shock then when, for instance, the wife wants to nurture the children and husband believe in tough love. Just in this one area, there is enough conflict to divide.

We are also in a throw away society and no longer seem to believe that we need to work at a relationship to at least see if we can make it succeed. We give up at the first sign of trouble and never really find out how the other person is truly feeling.

married people couldn't be judged that easily. there are so many factors why partners decide to have divorce. yes, they have children and having a divorce between the partners would have a very heavy effect on the children. but i guess, partners decide on what they should really do and what they feel regarding their relationship with each other. if having a divorce would make them at peace, then let them have it. it's their lives anyway. as long they take care of the children and support them with all the needs they will be needing, then everything will turn out good. evil:evil:evil: