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Do adopted children have the right to know who their biological parents are?

bhenjenz

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Absolutely, 100% yes.
children should definitely have the right to know of where they came from!
Adoption doesn't erase the fact that this child has a mother and a father who created them, a mother who carried them, nurtured them, gave birth to them and who is still their first mother. now not at any younger age but once 18 they should have the right. the reason for an older age is because they'll be emotionally prepared for the acceptance or rejection they may fall into. Adoption doesn't take away the mother's love for them, or the connection that naturally exists between them. That "information" - that connection - does not belong to anyone else to *decide* if an adoptee has the right to it. It doesn't belong to the state, to the court or to any adoptive parent. Adoptive parents don't replace the first parents, and - IMHO, don't have the right to keep that information from their child.
 

flyndove

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Yes I think that They should have the right to know about their parents and any medical issues the family might have.
 

pritilixious

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I agree with you! A child has the right to know his true identity. And there are cases that they knew they are adopted,but still choose to stay with their not real parents.
 

MsRaintree

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Yes, the child needs to know coz even if the adoptive parents would hide the identities of the biological parents, there will come a time that the child would ask and seek for the biological parents. It's a natural thing for us humans to trace our origin. The question here would be when is the right time to tell the child that he/she is not their biological child. There are ways of course how to tell but the real challenge would be the timing.
 

speedy

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Yes, I agreed that they have the right to know who are their real parents are. People that we grown up with are the people closest to us and same thing with adopted children. Though they will know their real parents they will still love the people who adopt them especially if they treat them good. Nothing to worry to let those children know their roots.
 

cybεr

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Of course they have the right to know! It is important as well. If your family had serious medical conditions, you have to know about it because it may have been passed to you.
 

khare1005

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definitely they have rights to know about their blood relation but in the mean time would it really matter to know or to find about the parents who had no responsibility of child and who left the child on their own for orphanage to take care off?what might be the case with them,if they didn't take care of their child all these years then what better a child will get searching for his/her blood relations?it will only cause pain and nothing else.
 

david15923

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99,9% yes it depends on how small they are. If you are going to show a 8 year kid his biogical parents, then that is not acceptable. The kid will be confused, and sad. The parents that adopted him, should understand that there is an age where everything is perfect, and we belive that thinking is going to make it real.

The parents should tell when the child is 18 years, and why that happened.
 

Golden Llama

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Yes and no.

Yes because they need to know who made them! If it weren't for their real parents, they wouldn't be in this world. They also have to experience their real culture.

No because if they see who their parents are, they'll get mad, because their parents dumped him/her, and now the kid can't live with their real parents.

Even though I'm leaning more towards yes, I have to say both.
 
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i think yes they have right to know about their parents.parents who adopted them should tell them about their parents.
 

grazmd

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I think the child has the right to know because after all they are the real parents. But it is also up to the child if he or she wants to know the real parents. If the child doesnt want then dont push the child. If she/he wants well and good. Remember, knowing the real parents may have a psychological effect on the child and if it will turn out ugly, then the adoptive parents must really think hard about it.