Early marriage vs late marriage

What do you think is the right age to get married? My parents married at 30, had me at age 31 and they have no regrets. The average age at which people get married here in urban India is about 24-25 and about 19-20 in rural India. I'll probably get married only by 28-29, considering higher studies and the time it takes to 'settle down'.

When do you want to get married and why?

i guess in my case it will be late marriage because i need to study till 24 and completed my undergraduate program then have to work under government for 4 years , then maybe i will think about my marriage and this is my plan so far till now .

Well I would like to be married at either Late 20s which is 28 or 29 or Mid 30s which is 33 or 34. Just a plain reason, Enjoying being single and preparing myself financially, emotionally, mentally and physically.

cursedsoul said:

What do you think is the right age to get married? My parents married at 30, had me at age 31 and they have no regrets. The average age at which people get married here in urban India is about 24-25 and about 19-20 in rural India. I'll probably get married only by 28-29, considering higher studies and the time it takes to 'settle down'.

When do you want to get married and why?

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Based with my observation there are advantages and disadvantages in marrying late and early. My mother had me when she was 18 years old and no regrets having me earlier because as of now we almost like sisters. It's hard to marry when you are in teen age like 18 or 19. More likely, it is good to marry early as long as you have a stable so you will be able to support your family. The good thing in marrying early and had children is you still have strength to work and support your children to go to school until college.

Marrying late also is good but make sure that you already much savings and stable job. Good thing about marrying late is you will not struggle hard to support your family as you have a job. Bad part is you already old while your children are still very young. But nothing to worry if you have much savings and have a compensation from the company that you are working to support your children even you will stop working at the age of 60.

I married when I was 28 and I am grateful about it.

there isn't a "fixed" age to marry. It depends on how much time you are dating, and if you see future in that relationship. And it has to be a full agreement on both parts, or it wont be a successful marriege.

i think late marriage is better to me because if your having a wife it should be live happily you can marry earlier too but you should have a good business

I dislike both of them. Early or late marriage causes many problems between husband and wife. So marry at the proper age :smile:

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I dislike both of them. Early or late marriage causes many problems between husband and wife. So marry at the proper age :smile:

I just want to get married when i will complete my study and a good job ,i think it will happen within 3-4 years.when i will be 22 or 23.so i prefer 22-25 is the best rime for marriage.

When i was young ,i said to myself i wanna get married at the age of 25,and now that im already 25,ive changed my mind!i want to get married maybe at mids 30 too. Well of course i want to have family when i know to myself that im ready.stable job, savings, and when i feel that this man is the man i want to be with for the rest of my life.

pritilixious said:

When i was young ,i said to myself i wanna get married at the age of 25,and now that im already 25,ive changed my mind!i want to get married maybe at mids 30 too. Well of course i want to have family when i know to myself that im ready.stable job, savings, and when i feel that this man is the man i want to be with for the rest of my life.

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So now what do u think.that mean how old are you now.and when exacl in age will marry.

If I would to choose, I would choose the second one. Although there are some cons about it, still it is more sensible to marry at the later age when one is ready, both emotionally and financially. Early marriage though is very risky in terms of preparedness. It's hard to make a marriage work when it is not properly planned.

I would say that average marriage as in a perfect time for marriage is with in 25 to 28 age i guess this is the best time when people is estabilisted understand the world better and will have a safe future.

Well, every people have their own opinion about this and I think I'm in late marriage. Personally, I have lots of things to finished first before planning to be settle. I want to finish my studies, help my siblings and having my own savings.

babychane said:

Well, every people have their own opinion about this and I think I'm in late marriage. Personally, I have lots of things to finished first before planning to be settle. I want to finish my studies, help my siblings and having my own savings.

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That's right Sis. It is good to be settled before getting married so we don't have much problem in the future. Enjoy being single and explore life. It is hard to work in other country if you are married. You are still young and better is waiting ahead of you.