I am a girl and I want to point out that we truly respect our body and that includes our virginity. In my culture and in my country where I grew up in, it is our tradition to save our virginity until we are married to our husband. But of course, the world is changing and our paradigm is shifted to a new outlook. I think what is important is the shared relationship and your love for the girl. It is just an extrinsic and physical thing but what is more important is how you guys feels towards each other.