Help me avoid falling in love

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So I'm starting to develop feelings for this chick and I just can't have that.

Fuckin dreamed of her the other night...

This needs to stop, any suggestions?

However, cutting contact isn't really an option since she plays a vital part in something I'm working on.
 

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Devour said:
Don't be with her, be with someone else. If you don't want that only see her at work and nothing else no personal.
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It's not that simple.

I'm looking for like mind tricks or something to make me not feel shit for her.
 

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For real I'm having a similar problem, and it's happened to me before.

I just started talking to other girls, helps me keep my mind off her.

That, and don't tell her how you feel until you feel like you actually want something, otherwise let her be none the wiser.
 

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Bit said:
It's not that simple.

I'm looking for like mind tricks or something to make me not feel shit for her.
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Think of other women, it's not really that easy once your in your in unless you leave.
 

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I talk to like I don't even know dozens of other chicks, I don't dream of them, or feel anything for them...

This is just weird, completely not me.

I haven't told her shit.
 

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Bit said:
I talk to like I don't even know dozens of other chicks, I don't dream of them, or feel anything for them...

This is just weird, completely not me.

I haven't told her shit.
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May I ask why you don't want what you're feeling?

Maybe you're just craving a bit of company but you're denying it to yourself.
 

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Astro said:
May I ask why you don't want what you're feeling?

Maybe you're just craving a bit of company but you're denying it to yourself.
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"May I ask why you don't want what you're feeling?

Maybe you're just craving a bit of company but you're denying it to yourself."
 

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Astro said:
May I ask why you don't want what you're feeling?

Maybe you're just craving a bit of company but you're denying it to yourself.
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I have plenty of company.

To put it simply she's business, and I don't mix business and pleasure.

Actually I think I found the cure thanks to my bro.

Note: For anyone going through something similar, make a list of all her negative personality traits and read it whenever you think of her.

I'll post back with results.
 

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Give her a try mate, you never know. If anything happens, let it happen, if you dont like it, just leave.
 

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April Fools said:
Give her a try mate, you never know. If anything happens, let it happen, if you dont like it, just leave.
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I wish it were that simple...

In other news, I've managed to distance myself from her, dreams have stopped, she crosses my mind no where near as much as she used to.

I know she has feelings for me, which is good, this is the way it needs to be.
 
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