So guys, there's this girl I have been dating for 5 and a half months now. And things have been going good on and off. There's some problems though. I have broken up with her once but we got back together. She is VERY clingy and VERY flirty around all other guys and I always ask her what's up with that like why is she always flirting because I can see all these guys getting lead on and it has dimmed down a little but she still does it sometimes. Recently I have started to not care as much. I have contemplated breaking up with her cause its just dragging on. I'm not happy. But there is one problem
First, is that I don't know if these plans will work out to my likings. If they don't then I'm screwed. There's this other girl. This other girl is my girlfriends good friend. She is very attractive. Not that my current girlfriend isn't, but I'm just saying.
So to say, my girlfriends name is Marie and this other girl is Jacky (not real names).
So the first night we hung out, long before I started going out with Marie, I kinda had a little crush. Now, I've been going out with Marie and she, like I said, is very clingy and flirty. She seems nothing wrong which is the problem. And I hate to just disrespect her because she is very very nice and super caring and sweet.
Now, I hung out with jacky and a group of friends yesterday and Marie wasn't there. I wanted to just ask straight up if she was in any way at all attracted to me. But I didn't. Because of Marie. My friend keeps telling me to break up with Marie and just get to know Jacky a little more but I don't want to just leave Marie hanging and I don't want to be a dick because then word gets to jacky from Marie that "Oh he's a jerk. Don't go out with him he broke up with me for no reason" and she would say no and so on.
I am in such a dilemma right now. I do not known what to do. Should I go with that would make me happy and take such a long shot? Or should I stay with Marie and make her really happy, even if that sacrifices my happiness.
I know someone will give a reasonable answer.
First, is that I don't know if these plans will work out to my likings. If they don't then I'm screwed. There's this other girl. This other girl is my girlfriends good friend. She is very attractive. Not that my current girlfriend isn't, but I'm just saying.
So to say, my girlfriends name is Marie and this other girl is Jacky (not real names).
So the first night we hung out, long before I started going out with Marie, I kinda had a little crush. Now, I've been going out with Marie and she, like I said, is very clingy and flirty. She seems nothing wrong which is the problem. And I hate to just disrespect her because she is very very nice and super caring and sweet.
Now, I hung out with jacky and a group of friends yesterday and Marie wasn't there. I wanted to just ask straight up if she was in any way at all attracted to me. But I didn't. Because of Marie. My friend keeps telling me to break up with Marie and just get to know Jacky a little more but I don't want to just leave Marie hanging and I don't want to be a dick because then word gets to jacky from Marie that "Oh he's a jerk. Don't go out with him he broke up with me for no reason" and she would say no and so on.
I am in such a dilemma right now. I do not known what to do. Should I go with that would make me happy and take such a long shot? Or should I stay with Marie and make her really happy, even if that sacrifices my happiness.
I know someone will give a reasonable answer.
