How do you feel when someone insult you ?

So , i guess we all have face that sometimes we get insulted by some peoples and we couldn't say anything. One day i was insulted by my teacher and i felt so bad about it. I was like crying and felt very shame on that time.

So have you ever get insulted by anyone ? how do you feel on that time ?

So , i guess we all have face that sometimes we get insulted by some peoples and we couldn't say anything. One day i was insulted by my teacher and i felt so bad about it. I was like crying and felt very shame on that time.

So have you ever get insulted by anyone ? how do you feel on that time ?

bijaybd said:

So , i guess we all have face that sometimes we get insulted by some peoples and we couldn't say anything. One day i was insulted by my teacher and i felt so bad about it. I was like crying and felt very shame on that time.

So have you ever get insulted by anyone ? how do you feel on that time ?

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hi good day, yeah i had experienced it already im become speechless when i was insulted, i really got hurt during that time and of course i felt shame to the people who's been there and watched the scenario.i just left her instead of saying anything.

I think being insulted is painful. Somehow it will leave you speechless but sometimes not. Sometimes if the insult is really below the belt I will defend myself and try to beat him up with insults too. Though most of the time I just kept silent and try to divert that into a positive one.evil:evil:evil:

I've experienced one when I was in the late college. I'm insulted with my instructor but then I never take it seriously. It just to measure how you would response with your emotion. Because if you're already in the real world of work like in an industry this would measure your emotional intelligence to other member of the team.
But still you can't escape the feeling of being down from the words that you can't swallow.:Crying:

I think the first thing that will come to me when insulted is to look at the person insulting me and think what have I done to deserve that. I'll make sure I'll get to react immediately whether or not to defend myself or just ignore the person. I don't know yet. Perhaps it depends on the person insulting or the insult being cast on me. But of course I will make sure the person will regret having done that to me.

bijaybd said:

So , i guess we all have face that sometimes we get insulted by some peoples and we couldn't say anything. One day i was insulted by my teacher and i felt so bad about it. I was like crying and felt very shame on that time.

So have you ever get insulted by anyone ? how do you feel on that time ?

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It is normal in this world to be insulted by someone and maybe they don't really mean it. They are just careless about their words. Well, before I really talk back and I will never ever rest until I could insult the person back. But then, I realized that it was useless because words can never take back pain and the shame. So, I learned to forgive people who insult me and sometimes, I just let it slip away as if nothing had happened and with that, I also try to ask myself if I deserve such insults and the like. If so, then I will try to do something about it in a constructive and positive way. I may feel bad and even cry about it but it is just natural to feel that way because my ego is hurt and so is myself. But eventually, I will forget about it as time passes by and thus, I don't linger on the insults that much.

Well, when someone insult me than I will neglect that because i have to make myself in positive way rather than thinking of that insult which make us worse.

Naturally I will also feel bad and get hurt like any other human being if I am insulted! May be I may get angry also! Thanks !

bijaybd said:

So , i guess we all have face that sometimes we get insulted by some peoples and we couldn't say anything. One day i was insulted by my teacher and i felt so bad about it. I was like crying and felt very shame on that time.

So have you ever get insulted by anyone ? how do you feel on that time ?

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Being insulted from someone feel me tender in my whole part of the body,sometimes my tongue tied and i have no saliva to shallow.I want to be invisible immediately on that situation time i was insulted specially if it is infront of many people know me,I also consider that i am like an ice cream and cheese melting from the hot of pan.

I also have this kind of experience. And as you all feel it's not really okay to be insulted. I don't insult someone so I'm not deserving to be insulted as well. Just like the golden rule. "Do unto others what you want them to do unto you."

Oh..,i can't think about it,some who insulting me in the front of a crowd,i did'nt get what to do at that time,its a critical situation.,