I'm confused. Life is fucked up.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Okay, I do a lot of these. But this is a really fucking serious. This is for advice.

Bare in mind I do these at like 4-5am so yolo on the spelling.

I met this girl, 2 years ago. me and her are suuuuuper close.. She was a virgin.. Until last Sunday.

I'm going to cut this short.. Sunday, she met some lad(boy) and she fucked him. He threatened her with a knife if she told anyone she'd be getting stabbed.

this girl was technically going to be mine, long story and only my nigga @mac knows that story.

She thinks she's pregnant.. and she wants me to help her raise the baby, I argued with her how I won't feel anything for a kid that won't look like me and shit @trap you know how it would feel if little bentley wasn't yours, you'd be fucking devastated..

I'm confused whether to help her raise the kid and make the kid think I'm his father or just not get with this girl at all.

fuck off if you're going to be judgmental.. If you have nothing that is concerning this matter, please fuck right off.

Taunt · Feb 22, 2015

If it was up to me i would help her raise the boy and when the time comes she or both of you tell him what really happened, and maybe adopt the boy as your own. I don't know that's what i would do.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Taunt said:
If it was up to me i would help her raise the boy and when the time comes she or both of you tell him what really happened, and maybe adopt the boy as your own. I don't know that's what i would do.

the fucked up thing is; If she is pregnant, the father of the child is a rapist. She was sexually assaulted as far as I am seeing this.

Taunt · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
the fucked up thing is; If she is pregnant, the father of the child is a rapist. She was sexually assaulted as far as I am seeing this.

If that's the case why hasn't she called 911 and get her rapist arrested, all it takes is a rape kit. (they check her for semen, penetration, etc.)

Warn · Feb 22, 2015

This is going to sound corny as fuck but oh well:

Do you honestly see a future with this girl? Is this the kind of girl you would like to stay with? If so I say go ahead, if you can honestly say that you think you guys will be together for a long time then there should be nothing stopping you. The kid is going to get in the way obviously and it will be a huge adjustment for you.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Taunt said:
If that's the case why hasn't she called 911 and get her rapist arrested, all it takes is a rape kit. (they check her for semen, penetration, etc.)

We're in the UK buddy. She doesn't think it's rape either, she's just calling it a casual one night stand that meant nothing but she got knocked up.

Divinitive · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
the fucked up thing is; If she is pregnant, the father of the child is a rapist. She was sexually assaulted as far as I am seeing this.

The whole situation is fucked bro. If you need to talk Jaii, you know how to reach me. I would personally only help her out is I was confident in what the future holds. Do not let someone else's mistake compromise your future man.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Warn said:
This is going to sound corny as fuck but oh well:

Do you honestly see a future with this girl? Is this the kind of girl you would like to stay with? If so I say go ahead, if you can honestly say that you think you guys will be together for a long time then there should be nothing stopping you. The kid is going to get in the way obviously and it will be a huge adjustment for you.

Of course I like her a fuck ton haha, I just don't see why she won't have an abortion and start fresh. Fair fucking play, it's her child.. But to be completely honest, I should have some say if I'm planning on getting with her.

Divinitive said:
The whole situation is fucked bro. If you need to talk Jaii, you know how to reach me. I would personally only help her out is I was confident in what the future holds. Do not let someone else's mistake compromise your future man.

Exactly why I'm confused. I was resulting to anger earlier, wanting to do multiple things to this kid, I still want to fucking murder him but I know it's going to be at a bad point that I'll get fucked up in the long run over it.

Azazel · Feb 22, 2015

Are you ready to raise a baby? Do you want to raise a child with this woman? What I would suggest doing is raising it or putting him/her up for adoption.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Azazel said:
Are you ready to raise a baby? Do you want to raise a child with this woman? What I would suggest doing is raising it or putting him/her up for adoption.

I want too, don't get me wrong.. She doesn't want to put it up for adoption either, she's a fucking pussy in my eyes. (sounds harsh but single fucks are given at this moment lulz)

I just don't know whether I would be able to love this child as if it was mine.

Warn · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
Of course I like her a fuck ton haha, I just don't see why she won't have an abortion and start fresh. Fair fucking play, it's her child.. But to be completely honest, I should have some say if I'm planning on getting with her.

Exactly why I'm confused. I was resulting to anger earlier, wanting to do multiple things to this kid, I still want to fucking murder him but I know it's going to be at a bad point that I'll get fucked up in the long run over it.

What ever you do just make sure you are not in and out of the childs life, that is the worst thing possible.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Warn said:
What ever you do just make sure you are not in and out of the childs life, that is the worst thing possible.

I am a super busy person as it is right now, I don't know how I'd be able to cope with having a kid haha.

Warn · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
I am a super busy person as it is right now, I don't know how I'd be able to cope with having a kid haha.

You will definitely need time on your hands, how old are you anyways if you do not mind me asking Sir Flaw Jaii.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Warn said:
You will definitely need time on your hands, how old are you anyways if you do not mind me asking Sir Flaw Jaii.

I am not disclosing this information, this thread will turn into a dickfest of people begging for kudos

Taunt · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
We're in the UK buddy. She doesn't think it's rape either, she's just calling it a casual one night stand that meant nothing but she got knocked up.

Well then now you have to think if you really like this girl and you want to be with her forever, and you also have to think about to kid and how your gonna have to get used to him/her not being yours.

Warn · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
I am not disclosing this information, this thread will turn into a dickfest of people begging for kudos

understandable, if i were to guess your age i would say it was a bad idea. just because of your future plans in life. but if you truly think that raising the child is best then go for it

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Taunt said:
Well then now you have to think if you really like this girl and you want to be with her forever, and you also have to think about to kid and how your gonna have to get used to him/her not being yours.

I adore her, she knows how much I want to be with her. Meh sounds corny but fuck it yolooooo

Warn said:
understandable, if i were to guess your age i would say it was a bad idea. just because of your future plans in life. but if you truly think that raising the child is best then go for it

Nah, I don't care.. I'm 16 years old. I'm more independent than some people may think. I have the skills to look after a child seeing as I've been the caring person all my life with my older brother.

Warn · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
I adore her, she knows how much I want to be with her. Meh sounds corny but fuck it yolooooo

Nah, I don't care.. I'm 16 years old. I'm more independent than some people may think. I have the skills to look after a child seeing as I've been the caring person all my life with my older brother.

Personally just think it is a shame you guys have been put in this position. Wish the best for all 3 of you.

Taunt · Feb 22, 2015

Lyrics said:
I adore her, she knows how much I want to be with her. Meh sounds corny but fuck it yolooooo

Nah, I don't care.. I'm 16 years old. I'm more independent than some people may think. I have the skills to look after a child seeing as I've been the caring person all my life with my older brother.

Well if you're going to raise a kid you're going to have to be mature and stop saying yolo and also cause thats like so 2012 or some shit like that. But anyways good luck with this situation, hope i helped.

Jaii · Feb 22, 2015

Warn said:
Personally just think it is a shame you guys have been put in this position. Wish the best for all 3 of you.

I never wanted a kid, this was her fault. It won't change how I feel about her, That would be fucked up. Thanks for the kind words though.

Taunt said:
Well if you're going to raise a kid you're going to have to be mature and stop saying yolo and also cause thats like so 2012 or some shit like that. But anyways good luck with this situation, hope i helped.

I'ts 6am mate, I'm just trying to express how I feel.

I'm confused. Life is fucked up.

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