Is too much of love bad?

absolutex · Jul 10, 2011

Guys and gals. loved and loved for 12 years now. We are going to get married. I love her toooooo much. Is it bad?

MsRaintree · Jul 10, 2011

Anything that is too much isn't good. Although in your case, loving someone that much isn't bad. Just make sure you saved some love for yourself too. I'm happy for you cause you're getting married anytime soon. Best wishes!

speedy · Jul 10, 2011

absolutex said:
Guys and gals. loved and loved for 12 years now. We are going to get married. I love her toooooo much. Is it bad?

I agreed with the other poster above that anything that too much is not good. Nothing if are that long with your partner as long as there is an assurance and you surely love each other. But back, on my mind what is the use of having a relationship that long and don't marry yet. Sometimes, we loses someone we love because we waited for so long to be settled. But you and your partner is fine about your relationship, it has no problem at all. You need to have a constant communication and set a plan of what you really wanted both. Good thing that you plan to get married, hopefully not for 12 years again. God bless.

livingdeath62 · Jul 10, 2011

loving (too much) is OK, as long as she loves you back. if she doesnt and you still love her and you stalk her or something, thats bad and can land you with a fine of $1000 and 160 days of jail time.

CraptacularxD · Jul 10, 2011

As long both of you couples are loving each other. It's Alright. It's Cool, not to the point that could lead to obsession and jealousy. Anyway, Best Wishes for you mate and Congratulations on your near wedding.

inamnilawar · Jul 11, 2011

i think any thing in the world is too much is too bad specially that stupid love if you are gone successful in that that happen in unfortunately i wont believe it

skalamgirrockey · Jul 13, 2011

First of all congrats you all.because you are going to make your dream come true.your loved turned into marriage so it not bad

babychane · Jul 13, 2011

Cool! Your getting married and Congratulations. I also agree with others post in here that everything too much is really bad. In your case, I think both of you really love each other and it's good. Loving too much that cause quarrels, fights and misunderstandings are those things that mate it bad. You should balance your emotion so you will not get into the point that you will cause bad things over your girl. Cheers for both of you. ^^

dreamteamcoop · Jul 13, 2011

Like everything, you need a balance. Every excesses in a direction or another is not good. Just love your partner but not excessively cause you could lose your common sense if something goes wrong or if she doesn't show you the love you were expected.

tanaselan · Jul 13, 2011

Love and loving so deeply is not bad but something you have to think practically at the same time . Is it good or bad for you ? You must decide your life, my friend. Love is a just a part of our life and also plays a crucial roles as a big support for us .Love and think it practically .

pritilixious · Jul 14, 2011

too much of something is bad. loving too much is bad, you have to balance your feelings and your mind. that's why our brain is higher than our hearts for us to think first whatever we are feeling. it is not wrong to love someone but always remember to love ourselves first before we can love others.

armarasrar1 · Jul 15, 2011

Well Loving more is different and too much is different and so for everything there is a limit so we have to maintained limit in every circumstances but Love is a thing we cant maintain the limit how much we give that much we get back

yuenna · Jul 15, 2011

congratulations! remember too much of something is BAD. but in your case i think that is one true love coz you wont stay with each other for 12 years if it was not meant to be meaning you both love each other and it is called destiny

best wishes!

Golden Llama · Jul 15, 2011

Think about it like this. Too much of anything is bad. Too much exercise is bad. Too much water is bad. Too much sex is bad.

So technically, too much love is bad. Just keep it a good rate.

absolutex · Jul 16, 2011

speedy said:
I agreed with the other poster above that anything that too much is not good. Nothing if are that long with your partner as long as there is an assurance and you surely love each other. But back, on my mind what is the use of having a relationship that long and don't marry yet. Sometimes, we loses someone we love because we waited for so long to be settled. But you and your partner is fine about your relationship, it has no problem at all. You need to have a constant communication and set a plan of what you really wanted both. Good thing that you plan to get married, hopefully not for 12 years again. God bless.

Oh thank you for this lovely response. We are planning the marriage and working at it hard! And she loves me!!!! That's what is always the nicest thing.

yuenna said:
congratulations! remember too much of something is BAD. but in your case i think that is one true love coz you wont stay with each other for 12 years if it was not meant to be meaning you both love each other and it is called destiny

best wishes!

thanks. I am feeling a bit proud of ourselves having had your reply!!! And you know, sometimes I feel that we have grown together, like providing life-force or so to each other!!!

@All kind and lovable friends!
Your replies are lifting my spirits up. I shall surely inform you about my marriage dates etc. soon. And all are invited!!!

anjville · Jul 17, 2011

Well, being together for 12 years is already a commitment and a proof that you are really in love. I don't think that too much love is really bad as long as you are happy to be with your partner and you are also doing fine about your life.

arnelia · Jul 17, 2011

Love is not bad...that is the gift that you can give to your love ones w/repect esp.
but sometimes love become bad depends on how you treated your partner.

give love to be able to love....

rattanchauhan · Jul 17, 2011

I think love is the only thing that deny the fact that " excess of everything is bad". The more the love is there the more better it is .

jhef001 · Jul 17, 2011

FOr me its bad to be focused too much to love !

you should be left a little to yourself

its not for life .

loving for life is not easy to see !

thevipnoob · Jul 17, 2011

speedy said:
I agreed with the other poster above that anything that too much is not good. Nothing if are that long with your partner as long as there is an assurance and you surely love each other. But back, on my mind what is the use of having a relationship that long and don't marry yet. Sometimes, we loses someone we love because we waited for so long to be settled. But you and your partner is fine about your relationship, it has no problem at all. You need to have a constant communication and set a plan of what you really wanted both. Good thing that you plan to get married, hopefully not for 12 years again. God bless.

i agree with this guy
anyways i hope u do get happy

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