Lets talk about LOVE.. Hold on or Letting Go??

melskie

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For me letting go. base on my experience.. it is better to let go of someone you love.. Some of us think holding on makes us strong..


“True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.” )
 

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If you feel that the relationship is going nowhere, it is better to let go than adhere with the dry and non-productive bond.

Letting go maybe not easy but I think that's the best solution from such a relationship.

"Don't chase pavements that leads you to nowhere. Give up and move on..."
 

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if your relationship give you lots of headache. If the person you are with always create problem and always torturing you with words, then just let that person go. we already have lots and lots of problems in life already don't need anymore problems.
but if you guys love each other but you guys are going through hardship then hold on tight because the hard time will pass by soon.
 

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I think it's depends in your situation. Based on my experience, me and my first boyfriend end our relationship for some matters. Even you love each other you cannot easily say that you two should still hold on. Time will come that you will choose on what to do. It's a hard decision for a couple. As of now, me and my boyfriend is in this kind of situation. I hope that we fix this soon.
 

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I dont know if letting go is a good ideea if that person loves you and you love him/her well you must work things out in my opinion. You dont want to go in life thinking that you missed on something wonderfull and he or she could be the perfect one for you.
 

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yes your right about that i have also someone that i realy love but i just have let her go and even until now she's the one that i love hope someday or time will come that i could be with her again :Sad:
 

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LET GO IF:
-only one of you is inlove
-if he or she is already unfaithful
stuff like that because it hard to stay in a relationship if you two already have some issues that cant be forgotten or can be raised whenever you would fight.
i guess it still depends on the person when he or she is on that situation
 

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what if we love each other?? she break up with me because of religion.. ( i love her so much.. ( i hate her religion.. it is a sin for them if they love a person in other religion..
 

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it depends on the situation if you really love your partner what ever happens you must accept him/her.


i do letting go in my past relationship even we love each other cause of things that her parents not comfortable with me.

too sad but its ok i'm here now stand on my own and finding new one that can accept me who i am.

nice topic mate.
 

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bro i accept her who ever she was and what religion she belong.. ( with been together for 9months. i though it is already okay..
 

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For me love is giving everything which our love ones need without demanding anything back. Which means get ready for sacrifice all the time and do not even wish your love one sacrifice for you but I know he or she will.
 

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ladyness said:
I'll just share what my friend said. she said Love is loving till the end and never letting go, because if the person really loves you, he'll never even think of leaving.
Well i guess she has a point there
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but she leave me.. (
 

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well for me, that depends on the situation i am in. if it seems like we could have something great together, i wouldn't let him go for the life of. but if it were impossible for me to be with him, i'd come to my senses and just let him go.
 

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Base on my experience I could say that if the one you love wanted to be let go then let him go because in a relationship two people must be inlove in order for it to work. It will really hurt but you have to face the fact that maybe you are really not meant for each other.
 

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that's true.. letting go of someone doesn't mean you didn't love him/her..
 

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ladyness said:
perhaps she didn't really love you at all. don't worry she'll come back if she really love you. If she doesn't, then maybe you're meant for someone else
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do u really think she didn't really love me in 9months that with been together?
 
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