Meeting a cam girl

[Nims]

The situation: You are invited to visit a cam girl you have spoke to regularly on the internet for quite some time now. She is really genuine with you and happy to speak with you a lot, about normal things, not sexual. You have paid her quite a lot of money in the past ($600+) but not to get off on her at all, just because you think she is a nice person and the fun of talking to each other seems very mutual - I guess to show her you care and kinda treat her. You have cammed face to face with her regularly before, just normal chats and conversations and have some personal contacts for her. Edit: Also told you she loves you on one occasion.

If this girl asked you to meet up with her, which involved taking a flight, would you do it and why/ why not? Currently trying to weigh up any pros and cons, don't give me bullshit about 'stories' you hear all the time.

 

[Hollywood]

Um, yeah sure bro go meet her if you really want to.

 

[California]

No because you're paying her to talk to you. Its like going to the strip club and thinking the stripper likes you because she dances on you.

 

[Raven]

If you're in love with her personality, I would say you should go after her. I fell in love with an internet girl. I was going to drive up to her place, but she had found a boyfriend which really upset me. I still think about her sometimes.

 

[Nims]

No because you're paying her to talk to you. Its like going to the strip club and thinking the stripper likes you because she dances on you.

I definitely do understand this, but she has initiated random conversation with me outside of the site (free lol) as well as giving me these networks to contact her.

 

[BasedGod]

I hope this song helps:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94MK2JQIgFs

 

[Raven]

I definitely do understand this, but she has initiated random conversation with me outside of the site (free lol) as well as giving me these networks to contact her.

That's because she knows you got money man, but if you truly like her go for it.

 

[Michael]

She may be wanting you for your money.

 

[Nims]

That's because she knows you got money man, but if you truly like her go for it.

This. Definitely my biggest concern. It just drives me crazy, I think it is probably just for money but then I also think why would she be interested in talking in her spare time when I don't pay shit for her to do that. The fact she told me once that she loves me is crazy too, just a one time thing as though it's special or something.

I don't know, possible life changing decision and I'm completely torn on which direction to go. I'm sorry to hear about your past situation buddy.

I hope this song helps:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94MK2JQIgFs

TYBG.

 

[Creator]

You paid her 600+ to talk to her? Wtf dude lol

 

[Nims]

You paid her 600+ to talk to her? Wtf dude lol

Free site with tips system. I didn't have to give her shit, at first I did it because she obviously consistently asks everyone in the room for tips and I felt like I should tip her for being hot as fuck (plus everybody else was cheap and literally NOBODY was parting with cash but still sending request after request).

 

[BasedGod]

This. Definitely my biggest concern. It just drives me crazy, I think it is probably just for money but then I also think why would she be interested in talking in her spare time when I don't pay shit for her to do that. The fact she told me once that she loves me is crazy too, just a one time thing as though it's special or something.

I don't know, possible life changing decision and I'm completely torn on which direction to go. I'm sorry to hear about your past situation buddy.


TYBG.

You're welcome. No offense man, DO NOT do this. Your wallet will be empty, and once it is you won't see her again. Meet a girl irl bro

 

[Creator]

Free site with tips system. I didn't have to give her shit, at first I did it because she obviously consistently asks everyone in the room for tips and I felt like I should tip her for being hot as fuck (plus everybody else was cheap and literally NOBODY was parting with cash but still sending request after request).

Well my honest opinion is that you should meet someone around your area, like what if you go to meet her and its a setup have you ever seen the movie Sex Drive!?!

 

[California]

If she asks you to buy her shit say yea brb goto bathroom and climb out window and go home.

 

[Slangism]

You shpuld do it because millions of couples meet that way especially on a tv show called catfish. and if u really like her company than its a good ide to meet her in person for a real hangout. also considering u paid 600 dollars

 

[Nims]

You're welcome. No offense man, DO NOT do this. Your wallet will be empty, and once it is you won't see her again. Meet a girl irl bro

Met a girl, five years later got engaged, six months later I had to break it off. She was a money grabbing bitch but I had some serious problems too.

Well my honest opinion is that you should meet someone around your area, like what if you go to meet her and its a setup have you ever seen the movie Sex Drive!?!

I have seen the movie. I know it could be some kind of setup but I just don't see the point in her doing that, plus is it worth the risk losing a ton of money when you could in fact just be meeting the woman you spend the rest of your life with?

If she asks you to buy her shit say yea brb goto bathroom and climb out window and go home.

In Russia, you do not climb out of window, window climb out of you.

Ps: I know I am defending her a lot but I am registering everything you guys are saying, I still haven't made up my mind but will be using everything, the good and the bad, that is posted in here to make a decision eventually.

 

[Coder]

This song shall encourage you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9eV96VaGj2w

 

[Narc]

I dont see how you can even ask anyone that.. Its your decision.

 

[Color]

It's up to you, although I wouldn't. That's a lot of money to be tossing in the air.

 

[Poop]

I would go because, you never know.
But do not leave your wallet out in the open when you are sleeping lol.