Meeting a cam girl

Shmurda · Dec 9, 2013

Man just meet somebody irl. 600+ for a random girl you don't even know is crazy but this is my opinion.

Nims · Dec 10, 2013

Narcotic said:
I dont see how you can even ask anyone that.. Its your decision.

Yes, it is ultimately my decision. I just feel I should know others opinions, maybe I have missed something out in my thinking process? Not something I find I can discuss with IRL friends at this stage as I know what they are like.

Poop said:
I would go because, you never know.
But do not leave your wallet out in the open when you are sleeping lol.

This is my problem with leaving to Russia, I use my card a lot but would probably need to carry cash there and I don't see where I could put my wallet where it couldn't be found if we are in her own house. It's definitely a question of trusting somebody you have not met yet.

Anymore opinions guys? Anything I have missed, questions, suggestions?

Fatality · Dec 10, 2013

I personally wouldn't do it because you pretty much paid her to talk to you :/

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Mick · Dec 10, 2013

If you meet her she won't do anything unless you pay her... You would be so dumb and naive if you think other wise.

Cam girls are con artists, they do anything they can to get money from you, and I would bet any money in the world her "networks" are fakes to get more money out of people like you... Check backpage for prostitutes good chance she is listed.

Good luck,

Nims · Dec 10, 2013

Mick said:
If you meet her she won't do anything unless you pay her... You would be so dumb and naive if you think other wise.

Cam girls are con artists, they do anything they can to get money from you, and I would bet any money in the world her "networks" are fakes to get more money out of people like you... Check backpage for prostitutes good chance she is listed.

Good luck,

Not sure what you mean by 'anything' - if you're referring to sex then it's already off the cards for a first meet. When I mentioned concerns to her it turns out she has her own concerns about me using her for sex.

I agree they are con artists but right now I am probably willing to take the 50/50 risk of being conned for some cash if the other outcome is everything actually being 100% genuine. Other stuff in that paragraph I simply have to disagree with, trust me, I have checked everything about her out in a non-creepy, trying to stay safe way and she isn't a hooker and her networks are very real.

The point we are at now is just talking like you would with someone you like as well as non-sexual cam to cam, I don't pay for this BUT do sometimes just gift her money to buy herself something nice (she doesn't ask for this).

Although I don't believe she is a con artist and trust her as far as you can trust somebody you have met online, for some reason after reading your post I possibly do feel a little more discouraged.

Profanity · Dec 10, 2013

Agreeing with F on this situation. I feel as if she just wants your money.
Perfect example of this is when Butters - from South Park - fell in love with a Raisins girl.
I don't know though, it may be genuine but you never know.

Fade · Dec 10, 2013

Nims said:
I definitely do understand this, but she has initiated random conversation with me outside of the site (free lol) as well as giving me these networks to contact her.

Just to get more money off you lmao. Sounds harsh, but what if she has contact with other boys? I personally wouldn't go there.

Bit · Dec 10, 2013

"You have paid her quite a lot of money in the past ($600+) but not to get off on her at all, just because you think she is a nice person and the fun of talking to each other seems very mutual "

As for me I think she's just playing you, should ask her for that 600$ back and see how she reacts

Monty · Dec 10, 2013

Obvious beta is obvious. Grow some nuts and go talk to people outside that you don't have to pay $400+ to meet up with.

Edit: You're going to wake up in a hotel missing a kidney with a note saying,
"Sorry honey xoxo.

P.S. Skype me"

Bit · Dec 10, 2013

Monty said:
Obvious beta is obvious. Grow some nuts and go talk to people outside that you don't have to pay $400+ to meet up with.

Edit: You're going to wake up in a hotel missing a kidney with a note saying,
"Sorry honey xoxo.

P.S. Skype me"

Hahahaha oh I already like this guy

Monty · Dec 10, 2013

Bit said:
Hahahaha oh I already like this guy

Hahaha thanks, dude. I was trying to be the least amount of harsh as possible. I really feel sorry for these types of people that get tricked into thinking that the person they're paying for interaction really, truly cares about them.

The most ironic part of this whole situation is that Nims has the SE (social engineering) user title.
He's falling for his own tricks. :'(

Bit · Dec 10, 2013

Monty said:
Hahaha thanks, dude. I was trying to be the least amount of harsh as possible. I really feel sorry for these types of people that get tricked into thinking that the person they're paying for interaction really, truly cares about them.

The most ironic part of this whole situation is that Nims has the SE (social engineering) user title.
He's falling for his own tricks. :'(

A Social Engineer with no game?

Hahah, no comment *cough*

Nims · Dec 10, 2013

Decided I am flying out there for a weekend and depending on what happens she wants to come and visit me in the new year. Ultimate decider was asking how much cash she thinks I should bring and her saying just enough for food is all I will really need.

Also, Bit and Monty - I guarantee I am 100x better at social engineering than you two, probably everyone on this forum. Thanks for your opinions.

Dunk · Dec 10, 2013

When you guys have kids tell your son that you met mommy on a cam show. LOL

You shouldn't do it bro, i think it's a set-up.

HUNNID · Dec 10, 2013

This cant be serious. You were paying a Porn Cam girl. LOL This will be a great story for the kids, "Hey kids you wana know how me and your mother met? I saw her on a Brazzers video cam show which is a porn website and I gave her 600+ to see her do things, ill tell you when you are older, and then finally we decided to meet face to face, it was magical." Sounds like a great story ahah. This has to be a joke, You can't be seriously contemplating this lol

Nims · Dec 10, 2013

xSlatzy said:
This cant be serious. You were paying a Porn Cam girl. LOL This will be a great story for the kids, "Hey kids you wana know how me and your mother met? I saw her on a Brazzers video cam show which is a porn website and I gave her 600+ to see her do things, ill tell you when you are older, and then finally we decided to meet face to face, it was magical." Sounds like a great story ahah. This has to be a joke, You can't be seriously contemplating this lol

I am completely 100% serious.

HUNNID · Dec 10, 2013

Nims said:
I am completely 100% serious.

Well that is just sad...I'm sorry. Reconsider your life. Go out and meet a girl who actually likes you for who you are, and not for how much money you donate to her web cam show.

hmu with negs · Dec 11, 2013

LOL MY BOY NIMS GET IT IN also better not be from a cam site I think it's from haha

Pig · Dec 11, 2013

I honestly have 0% clue why you are dating a online-hooker. (Pretty much) she sells her body online for money from old lazy guys -.- who knows? Maybe you will fly in and get kidnapped man, this shit is way too risky for me...

Shift · Dec 11, 2013

Nims said:
Decided I am flying out there for a weekend and depending on what happens she wants to come and visit me in the new year. Ultimate decider was asking how much cash she thinks I should bring and her saying just enough for food is all I will really need.

Also, Bit and Monty - I guarantee I am 100x better at social engineering than you two, probably everyone on this forum. Thanks for your opinions.

I SE'd soap once don't fuck with me.

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