Mothers should stay at home to look after their children

bhenjenz · Jun 24, 2011

Mothers should do whatever makes them the best mother they can be.
Mothers should stay at home with their children when they have the desire to do so and the financial, emotional, and mental capability to stay home. Staying home with the kids is not easy if you do it right, and it isn't for everyone.Mothers should work when it is financially necessary, or if they are not happy staying home.All mothers should do what is best for them and for their children, and we should all refrain from judging others for doing what is right for them, whether it is staying home or working outside the home!
what about you mates?For and against?
yes or no and why?

isloooboy · Jun 24, 2011

Well I am in the favor of stay at home and look after children's why? because kids need more time and effort during their growth period so its natural they need assistance of their parents. During their learning age mother is the best teacher for them who can fulfill their every need so I support this method instead of doing other job.

theonlybeat · Jun 24, 2011

There shouldn't be such a line between mother and father. I think they should be free to do what they want.

isloooboy · Jun 26, 2011

I think mother must stay at home so she can raise children properly which is his job more than a father. Kids are more near to mother during their growing age so its necessary she pay full attention to them so they can grow up with confidence

khare1005 · Jun 26, 2011

bhenjenz said:
Mothers should do whatever makes them the best mother they can be.
Mothers should stay at home with their children when they have the desire to do so and the financial, emotional, and mental capability to stay home. Staying home with the kids is not easy if you do it right, and it isn't for everyone.Mothers should work when it is financially necessary, or if they are not happy staying home.All mothers should do what is best for them and for their children, and we should all refrain from judging others for doing what is right for them, whether it is staying home or working outside the home!
what about you mates?For and against?
yes or no and why?

why only mother should take a back step?father has no responsibility or what?why not a father should stay at home and have a watch over kids?why this stress for mother?i don't think its a true judging.
i agree a mother should and should take care of er child but certainly not at the price of her ambitions and her dreams.

refinej31 · Jun 26, 2011

RE: Mothers should stay at home to look after their children

The way the question is worded might lead one to believe that children are the woman's alone. They may or may not be. Certainly the child had a father, but that's biology. As to actual parenting, what's wrong with the idea that the couple make the decision as to who stays home with the kids (if anyone at all)? To accommodate the different relationships we are seeing in this day and age, whatever the parents (whatever mix of genders they may be) decide together is far more important that just the assigning of domestic responsibility for the children to the woman by some kind of default.

Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Should_women_stay_at_home_and_raise_their_kids#ixzz1QOc1FBWR

maple · Jun 27, 2011

Why only mother ,both should take responsibility..When children complete 3 years they will start going school then what should mother have to do at home?

bijaybd · Jun 27, 2011

from the day a child born till 10 years mother must need to give time to his child as this is the time when child learns everything.So i guess mothers should stay at home and take care of their children until they learn everything very well.

teacherwave624 · Jun 27, 2011

I think mothers should balance their time to take care of the kids. Mothers are just like you and me. We want to have careers too. We want to have some accomplishments in our lives too. We want to feel fulfilled in ourselves too. We can't stay home all the time. We need to work, grow and improve ourselves and these accomplishments are always shared to the children.

shresthaayush99 · Jun 27, 2011

yes you are right,Mothers should stay at home to look after their children .if they dont do so kids may be in problem.

khare1005 · Jun 27, 2011

maple said:
Why only mother ,both should take responsibility..When children complete 3 years they will start going school then what should mother have to do at home?

i support your views.i don't think a mother has to give up her job and stay at home for taking care of her child.she can't ruined her carrier.ofcourse the little one needs care and his/her mother but after a few months women can get back to their job.you can always get an arrangement done when you are not near your child.

kerex132 · Jun 27, 2011

I think both parents need to take resonsabilty not just the mum. But of course somebody needs to take care of the kids.

- kerex132

MsRaintree · Jun 27, 2011

My opinion is that, if the family is well off, which means that they are well provided for by the pillar of the house, then she can enjoy the life a woman would love to have. To rear her children to the best of her maternal care and nurturing. But to be realistic, life isn't that comfortable these days. Prices of commodities went soaring high and the salaries do not increase. To keep up with the daily financial obligations, mothers step out of their way and do things that may help support their daily needs. I think it isn't a bad idea to let the mother do something for her family, for her kids. Let us be supportive of this set up.

khare1005 · Jun 27, 2011

isloooboy said:
Well I am in the favor of stay at home and look after children's why? because kids need more time and effort during their growth period so its natural they need assistance of their parents. During their learning age mother is the best teacher for them who can fulfill their every need so I support this method instead of doing other job.

what will you say about kids who don't have a mother/do they not learn anything in life?of course its tough for such kids but what i mean to say is that a father should have an equal responsibility as a mother has.

aiman · Jun 27, 2011

i also thinks that mothers should live in home & look after her childrens & also look after the house she has to work in the home to have everything perfect.

vullie · Jun 27, 2011

your absolutely right, mothers should stay home until they reach a age when they can stay home alone.
so the mother can go working if she wants to

grazmd · Jun 27, 2011

Mothers of the new generation are dynamic. They know how to balance their home life and their career life. I agree, especially during the first year of a child's life, a mother should be by his side all the time because that is a crucial time in his life. But as the child grows older, I think that he should be taught how to take care of himself and to be responsible. I personally Im a working type of woman. I dont have kids yet but if I'll have I will stay by my child's side if deemed necessary without sacrificing my career. Also I will involve my husband in parenting, because it is not only the work of the mother to take care of the kids. If it the work of both.

AwesomeDude · Jul 23, 2011

Well, mothers should stay at home.. because men take the responsibility outside, and that's what have been happening for over years and years.. so we can't really change it

markirinekfc · Jul 23, 2011

Now a days, both partners must have to work for their childrens future. And, mothers todays are much professional compare to
the boys.

Edger20 · Jul 23, 2011

bhenjenz said:
Mothers should do whatever makes them the best mother they can be.
Mothers should stay at home with their children when they have the desire to do so and the financial, emotional, and mental capability to stay home. Staying home with the kids is not easy if you do it right, and it isn't for everyone.Mothers should work when it is financially necessary, or if they are not happy staying home.All mothers should do what is best for them and for their children, and we should all refrain from judging others for doing what is right for them, whether it is staying home or working outside the home!
what about you mates?For and against?
yes or no and why?

It's a no for me. In the first place, women demand to get equal rights and protection, women are not allowed to go to school, have college education and I think, this is one reason that this nonsense of mothers should be staying at home is not applicable now. If a man can sustain his family, a woman can,too. If a woman should stay at home, then men should also stay at home and just take care of the household. Women can do things that can make them be productive and useful elements in one's society even if she has to leave the house and delegate that household chores to other people. Women have the ability for managerial multi-tasking , meaning she can take both role without any compromising their rights to be financially secured by working outside the house.

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