i'm quite agree, i never stop or restrain my wife from pursue her career. after we have first daughter, my daughter stay at home with my baby sitter, it works until my daughter getting older, after 1 year, after several time changing baby sitter. because as you know baby sitter not the mother of my child, so they not love and caring for her, sometime i found the baby sitter have abuse my child. this making my wife trauma and decide to quit the job and taking care our children by herself.