Lately, I have gotten my girlfriend to watch a TV series that I have been watching for a year now, and she really likes it. Tonight she told me that she has a crush on a character on that TV show and told me that it was my fault. She was joking around, but she began to say other things. She said she like that he is strong but a sensitive person, and she said that she wanted to hug him.
Even though she was telling me this in a joyful mood, I stayed serious. I have not had any crushes on anyone or anything after dating her. All I want is her and I only want hugs from her. I do not understand why she would even think about being in another guy's arms. Where am I when this is going on in her head? I just believe that crushes are for little girls and even boys who are naive to loving relationships.
My problem is that I guess I am a little jealous of her crush because she wanted to hug him. If it was just a crush where she admired his character, I would not have a problem. But there is physical desire for this person, and I am not even thought about. Me and my girlfriend love each other so much and plan to make this more than just a relationship, but why should she have crushes on anyone else besides me?
How should I feel about this? Am I over-reacting? And what should I do?
Even though she was telling me this in a joyful mood, I stayed serious. I have not had any crushes on anyone or anything after dating her. All I want is her and I only want hugs from her. I do not understand why she would even think about being in another guy's arms. Where am I when this is going on in her head? I just believe that crushes are for little girls and even boys who are naive to loving relationships.
My problem is that I guess I am a little jealous of her crush because she wanted to hug him. If it was just a crush where she admired his character, I would not have a problem. But there is physical desire for this person, and I am not even thought about. Me and my girlfriend love each other so much and plan to make this more than just a relationship, but why should she have crushes on anyone else besides me?
How should I feel about this? Am I over-reacting? And what should I do?