Need help with this girl

Basically there's this girl.. Her name is Mariah she is Goregeous in every single way possible there is. She's a junior and I'm a senior in High school.
Beginning at the school year I had my eyes set on her for the longest time.. During football season she always texted me. All day and night then I got my concussion then that's when things started to flip upside down. She cared for me.
She gave me signs in the beginning of the school year that she liked me and I never really got the hint that she did until recently and I'm pissed at myself for that.

Well I was scared to fuck things up with this girl. And I want to do everything right
But "she calls me her best friend" she tells me everything about her ex boyfriend that lied to her and treated her wrong.. And so
Recently asked here to Prom the cutest way possible.. I had to wait about 2 days for her reply because she wasn't home so I left in her room. I can Fully describe it on what I look like.

Purple box with butter flies. On it with Purple tissue on the bottom with Black letters saying
"prom?" With a butterfly, and a huge black foam poster board saying " should we match"?
With a yes check mark only. Haha

Well she said yes..

Now she is starting to show me some signs again of interest..
And I don't know what I should do..
Should I ask her out when the time is right?
Like before Prom, during prom, or after prom.

Please help a brother out
And I'll also upload a pic of her.

I feel you dude even tho ur a fgt I agree with you.

The most common fuck up with people today is that they don't convey their feelings. What you need to do is have a face to face with her and ask her what she's looking for. If she wants a boyfriend and you want a girlfriend, then great. If she just wants a friend, still great. Friends are cool. Just do whatever is natural. The same goes with dating. If you want to take her on a date, ask her out whenever you want. And if you feel so incredibly nervous, tell her. Everyone loves it when someone can share something so simple yet secretive with them. Which in turn will let her be able to trust you. I hope this helped.

BTW- that pictures sayin selfie, but my mind is sayin Hollister

Why am I Fgt? Sir? @shift I wanting to know?

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Kill said:

The most common fuck up with people today is that they don't convey their feelings. What you need to do is have a face to face with her and ask her what she's looking for. If she wants a boyfriend and you want a girlfriend, then great. If she just wants a friend, still great. Friends are cool. Just do whatever is natural. The same goes with dating. If you want to take her on a date, ask her out whenever you want. And if you feel so incredibly nervous, tell her. Everyone loves it when someone can share something so simple yet secretive with them. Which in turn will let her be able to trust you. I hope this helped.

BTW- that pictures sayin selfie, but my mind is sayin Hollister

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Thanks man @Kill you helped me a lot you made me feel better I'll talk to her thanks

Yeah, be real with her. Totally agree with @Kill. And don't keep this all inside it sounds like you have been thinking a little bit too much, figure out what she wants. And if the time's right, ask her out. I would advise not to plan when to ask her out, if you're going to, just go for it sometime. You should be able to feel around and see if she wants you as a bf or just a friend.

Thanks @Miles for the advice bro I appreciate it

Yeah unless the bitch is just tryna play with your head outta spite, at you not "accepting" her to begin with. I gotta few stories like that.

Regardless good luck, if the situation develops hit me up.

There's only a few things you shouldn't do.

1. Don't talk about other girls.
2. Don't show interest in other girls.
3. Don't perv on other girls.

Don't hide feelings but then again don't bombard her with all your feelings. When she talks to you about all of her history it's a feeling of trust in a woman that they can do so. Take that as a compliment. As annoying as it gets, fucking deal with it. There's a lot worse!

Don't be shy but don't be full on, take risks when it seems like the best time to do so and hold back when you don't feel confident enough or the situation is not right. This will fuck everything. Going to the Prom for you might be an advantage to getting with her but in her eyes it's her night. Make her feel as though it is/was.

How long have you known her?
How well do you think you know her?
Are you nervous around her?
Is she nervous around you?

If you don't wanna post here just PM and I can help you out deciding what to do short term and long term. Hope I helped bra, good luck!

Chill said:

There's only a few things you shouldn't do.

1. Don't talk about other girls.
2. Don't show interest in other girls.
3. Don't perv on other girls.

Don't hide feelings but then again don't bombard her with all your feelings. When she talks to you about all of her history it's a feeling of trust in a woman that they can do so. Take that as a compliment. As annoying as it gets, fucking deal with it. There's a lot worse!

Don't be shy but don't be full on, take risks when it seems like the best time to do so and hold back when you don't feel confident enough or the situation is not right. This will fuck everything. Going to the Prom for you might be an advantage to getting with her but in her eyes it's her night. Make her feel as though it is/was.

How long have you known her?
How well do you think you know her?
Are you nervous around her?
Is she nervous around you?

If you don't wanna post here just PM and I can help you out deciding what to do short term and long term. Hope I helped bra, good luck!

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Making her feel like she's the only girl in the world for you can lead to disastrous results.

It varies.

She may of very well just backed off on you thinking it wouldn't work and she was wasting her time.

Now on the flipside, if you show her interest when she's backed off of you, she may take that as a sign that showing you less interest is a good thing and it turns you on, which could lead to her escalating that behavior. In an attempt to make you fall in love with her.

You've been warned.

Bit said:

Making her feel like she's the only girl in the world for you can lead to disastrous results.

It varies.

She may of very well just backed off on you thinking it wouldn't work and she was wasting her time.

Now on the flipside, if you show her interest when she's backed off of you, she may take that as a sign that showing you less interest is a good thing and it turns you on, which could lead to her escalating that behavior. In an attempt to make you fall in love with her.

You've been warned.

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Who the fuck you warning bro? I'm talking from personal experience. This is a Philosophy section for a fucking reason. I'm not debating I'm merely giving my opinion and what worked/works for me.

Chill said:

Who the fuck you warning bro? I'm talking from personal experience. This is a Philosophy section for a fucking reason. I'm not debating I'm merely giving my opinion and what worked/works for me.

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The OP who's considering taking your advice...

Philosophy? This is Innuendo...

Chill the fuck out.

Edit:...Pun NOT intended lol

Bit said:

The OP who's considering taking your advice...

Philosophy? This is Innuendo...

Chill the fuck out.

Edit:...Pun NOT intended lol

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Apologies, I meant Innuendo.

Where does it say he's considering taking my advice? I posted to try and help the situation. If he decides to take my advice or not I'm not the one in that situation so it doesn't bother.

It makes me happy to know that I've tried to help a guy out in need. Simple.

Chill said:

Apologies, I meant Innuendo.

Where does it say he's considering taking my advice? I posted to try and help the situation. If he decides to take my advice or not I'm not the one in that situation so it doesn't bother.

It makes me happy to know that I've tried to help a guy out in need. Simple.

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He's going to consider taking any and all advice posted here, hence why he's posted this thread, that's obvious.

If you want to apologize, apologize for freaking out on me...

To start off. She is sexy as fuck and I would hit that any day of my entire life and afterlife.

Okay.

First off, you got a prom date which happens to be her. Good start. Now it's just a matter of time. I would suggest to see what happens during and after prom. You want to make sure she feels the same way as you. You don't want to rush things. Basically everything has to happen again. Meaning everything that happened in the past between you two has to happen again. The connection. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY. Point blank bro.

Prom is a sketchy subject when it comes to the female sex. Girls are always excited to go to prom. I went to prom both Junior and Senior year. Both were amazing. Besides that, all girls want to get the chance to go to prom so they take any chance they can get. I am not saying that she accepted your invitation to JUST go but you have to put that into consideration. Don't stress on that subject too much. It's not a big deal. If she really likes you then she will show you that she does (at prom). When you are there look for signs.

The biggest sign would be that she gives you most of her attention. Meaning she sticks with you most of the time. Like she dances with you and is with you. If she goes and dances with other broskis then that might be a sign. But yet again don't take that into too much consideration. Every girl is different so I can't tell you what she really thinks/feels about you just by the situation.

While at prom don't hog her. So let her do what she wants. Like dance with other people or whatever you youngsters do at prom these days.

You want to make sure she knows that you like her.

You have a few choices. You can tell her at prom or you can wait till after prom.

I would suggest to wait till after prom to see how things go. If you feel comfortable to tell her and you are certain that she likes you back then you ask her.

Now you don't have to get all fancy to ask her just wait for the perfect time.

Us men have a "gut feeling". It is our sixth sense. Wait for the time that you feel is right. Trust me, you will know.

There are various situations that would be perfect.

The most obvious one is when shit gets heated. Now idk if you fuck bitches and get m0ney but if you are the sexually active type then get that bitch in bed and go to town. Then when you are done ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend.

That would pretty much be the best situation to ask a girl out.

If you are not the sexual type then you have to find the alternative "perfect situation".

When you are with her and you guys are talking try to find a good time to ask. Make her laugh and shit. You want to get to the point in the situation where she feels for you. Meaning she is having a good time (At the moment). This is an ideal situation because she is happy, having a good time, and will most likely say yes. Also, make sure you don't ask around other people. Most women are different when around other people. Try to have some alone time with her and find the right time.

Now like I said before all women are different. But I can tell you this from my past/present experience. All humans are different but most young people think/act the same or similarly.

I wish you the best of luck and make sure to update us with what happens.

Friends with Benefits is always a good way to go