TLDR: If you're really that lazy, you'll die a beta.
So I've been asked on a few other forums I visit "how to be a player". How to pull in that pussy, see there's plenty of attractive guys out there that have no luck with the ladies.. I should know, I used to be one of them...
It's all about mentality, the way you view and treat women, the way you handle all their stupid little 'tests', or as we call it "inner game", "outer game" helps, but you can be broke, unattractive, and still get the ladies, not as easily, as rich sexy mofos, but even they will have a hard time attracting anything other than gold diggers if they don't have game.
There's a shit load of guides out there, packed with lots of good information, and lots of contradicting information. I should know, I've read just about all of them, and still continue to grow my knowledge on the game. Knowledge is power.
I sit here and my mind just blasts through all of the information, all of the variables, the things I do and don't know, all the swings and misses I've had, all the V cards I've taken, all the hearts I've broken, how much I've truly contributed to the BoTS (Battle of the Sexes), and I wonder how in the fuck I am going to break this down for you guys... Fuck it I will just ramble, and rewrite until I feel satisfied.
The first thing is mentality, the one thing almost every single guy gets wrong in the beginning is thinking that girls want love and commitment and that will get you access to her vagina, WRONG! If it were that simple, you'd be drowning in pussy juice, you'd be drinking that shit for breakfast, and every chick's pussy would be worn out. Anything worth doing is never easy. If you just want to find a nice sweet girl and have a good relationship, then just play hard to get when one comes to you. (PM me I can help you get that easy)
On the flip side, if you wanna fuck tons of bitches, impress the people around you, and contribute to the BoTS, or maybe get some revenge on some bitches who did you wrong and broke your heart. Then this shit is for YOU!
Ok so yeah back on point, inner game.
Chicks want a strong, confident guy who is secure in himself. They also want a guy that every girl wants (AKA social proof, we'll cover that later), and a guy that protects his loved ones. Women are put on earth to breed, there's a reason we have so few involved in politics and on the forbes list, they're not built for reason and logic, and as sexist as this sounds, they are INFERIOR to YOU. Treat them as such, don't be a dick about it though, and watch as they flock to you. Bitches like a little abuse.
The moment a girl is attracted to you she starts analyzing you, within a few minutes she pretty much knows whether she wants to fuck you, kill you, or marry you. If you're kind of dumb, but sexy and confident, she'll move you into the fuck category most likely. If you're sexy, confident, highly intelligent, ambitious, and all that, you're moved into the marriage section. If you act like a little needy bitch, she's going to use you, and toy with you, and hate you, and ultimately if you died she would not give a fuck. Just trust me on this, women literally are pieces of shit, at least where I come from, I honestly love to hurt and use them, no I was not always like this.
Ok so to review my retarded ramblings this is what we have.
1. Be confident
2. Be sexy
3. Act like she's not a big deal, or better yet convince yourself she's not a big deal. She's not...
4. Be secure
Ok now this next bit is to cover the head games. Most of you are ignorant to the fact that like 90% of the shit that comes out of a females mouth is her trying to manipulate you, keep this in mind, any time she does or says anything that makes you think "why is she doing that", 90% of the time it's game time. I can't teach you how to "reverse engineer" what they're trying to do, I can try and give you an example though.
Chick hmu, she made the first move, called me sexy and all that, I know I am at the absolute top of her list of guys. We talk on fb for a little bit, and she's not taking a really long time to reply to my messages or anything, so I let my guard down a little thinking maybe she wasn't tryna play with me, haha as if, that's what she wanted me to think.
It's been 24 hours and she still hasn't read my message on facebook, about 30 mins after I sent that last message to her a status of hers is posted on fb "Who wants to hangout today?" A few guys comment, she ignores all of them, she's trying to make me come to her. She KNEW I would go and look at her facebook and see this, she knows my interest level isn't very high right now, (despite the fact she's a hot blonde with a tight body), she knows I have game, and if she wants to bag me she has to bust out the big guns.
(continued) a couple hours after I wrote that she repleid to me with a simple little "haha" or some shit acting like she wasn't paying attention or interested in what I said, I let the message be marked read and simply did not reply, about ehh give or take 24 hours after that she likes a status of mine on fb, now I pretty much know for a fact she's not onto my game and falling into my trap, because she's trying to make me think of her and come to her. I will not give her any attention, more than likely she will like several more of my statuses, when she realizes that isn't working, she will begin to comment on them, I'll act like she's not a big deal (killing 2 birds with 1 stone by flexing for all the other chicks who see her trying to get my attention and me not giving a fuck, and also by simply not giving a fuck about her). She will probably break down and message me directly at which point I will take a really long time to reply and act like I'm interested in her, it will fuck with her head because I am not giving her priority, but being nice and acting like I care about her, I am training her that if she wants my attention she will come to me, she is my bitch, and I am in control of her. (end continuation)
I'll continue to add to this as the situation unfolds.
Now she has done a few things to try and build my interest level.
Ignoring me (attempting to make me think "what is she doing"?, does she not like me, etc etc,( the more you think of someone or something the more you are attracted to it), trying to act disinterested, (people want what they can't have easily).
Now this is how I will handle this situation.
I muted her conversation on facebook, and buried her message, and unfollowed her on fb, out of sight out of mind. When she does read and reply to my message (assuming she replies, she may just let it be marked read since I'm not responding to her game). I will simply not read it, and she won't hear from me for a long time,if she's smart she will know I am onto her game and retaliating with my own warning her not to fuck with me, and thus validating myself even further. Or she will fall into my trap, (most females assume we have ZERO game, and are completely oblivious to the shit they do) and likely fall in love with me, at which point I will break her down and continue to plow through all her lines of defense until she realizes the only chance she has to win me over is to give me that pussy, and when she does, I'll either jsut bail and break ehr heart for trying to play me, or I'll keep her on a leash and act like it's slightly working, and when she tries to leverage it and take it away from me, I'll take away that interest I've shown her.
Ok so to recap.
Women want your attention, love, loyalty, resources, and protection.
Don't give them to her easily.
Hold them all above her head and do not BREAK, this is your game.
Alright, I'm done for now, this is essentially the core essentials of being a player, it's shittily written, and I'll def add more onto it.
Feel free to ask questions.
Oh yeah I should point out I use the word 'game' in semi contradicting ways, game can mean status and social proof (I no longer have to validate myself because of the massive amount of female attention I get). Or it can mean head game. Figure otu which is which.
So I've been asked on a few other forums I visit "how to be a player". How to pull in that pussy, see there's plenty of attractive guys out there that have no luck with the ladies.. I should know, I used to be one of them...
It's all about mentality, the way you view and treat women, the way you handle all their stupid little 'tests', or as we call it "inner game", "outer game" helps, but you can be broke, unattractive, and still get the ladies, not as easily, as rich sexy mofos, but even they will have a hard time attracting anything other than gold diggers if they don't have game.
There's a shit load of guides out there, packed with lots of good information, and lots of contradicting information. I should know, I've read just about all of them, and still continue to grow my knowledge on the game. Knowledge is power.
I sit here and my mind just blasts through all of the information, all of the variables, the things I do and don't know, all the swings and misses I've had, all the V cards I've taken, all the hearts I've broken, how much I've truly contributed to the BoTS (Battle of the Sexes), and I wonder how in the fuck I am going to break this down for you guys... Fuck it I will just ramble, and rewrite until I feel satisfied.
The first thing is mentality, the one thing almost every single guy gets wrong in the beginning is thinking that girls want love and commitment and that will get you access to her vagina, WRONG! If it were that simple, you'd be drowning in pussy juice, you'd be drinking that shit for breakfast, and every chick's pussy would be worn out. Anything worth doing is never easy. If you just want to find a nice sweet girl and have a good relationship, then just play hard to get when one comes to you. (PM me I can help you get that easy)
On the flip side, if you wanna fuck tons of bitches, impress the people around you, and contribute to the BoTS, or maybe get some revenge on some bitches who did you wrong and broke your heart. Then this shit is for YOU!
Ok so yeah back on point, inner game.
Chicks want a strong, confident guy who is secure in himself. They also want a guy that every girl wants (AKA social proof, we'll cover that later), and a guy that protects his loved ones. Women are put on earth to breed, there's a reason we have so few involved in politics and on the forbes list, they're not built for reason and logic, and as sexist as this sounds, they are INFERIOR to YOU. Treat them as such, don't be a dick about it though, and watch as they flock to you. Bitches like a little abuse.
The moment a girl is attracted to you she starts analyzing you, within a few minutes she pretty much knows whether she wants to fuck you, kill you, or marry you. If you're kind of dumb, but sexy and confident, she'll move you into the fuck category most likely. If you're sexy, confident, highly intelligent, ambitious, and all that, you're moved into the marriage section. If you act like a little needy bitch, she's going to use you, and toy with you, and hate you, and ultimately if you died she would not give a fuck. Just trust me on this, women literally are pieces of shit, at least where I come from, I honestly love to hurt and use them, no I was not always like this.
Ok so to review my retarded ramblings this is what we have.
1. Be confident
2. Be sexy
3. Act like she's not a big deal, or better yet convince yourself she's not a big deal. She's not...
4. Be secure
Ok now this next bit is to cover the head games. Most of you are ignorant to the fact that like 90% of the shit that comes out of a females mouth is her trying to manipulate you, keep this in mind, any time she does or says anything that makes you think "why is she doing that", 90% of the time it's game time. I can't teach you how to "reverse engineer" what they're trying to do, I can try and give you an example though.
Chick hmu, she made the first move, called me sexy and all that, I know I am at the absolute top of her list of guys. We talk on fb for a little bit, and she's not taking a really long time to reply to my messages or anything, so I let my guard down a little thinking maybe she wasn't tryna play with me, haha as if, that's what she wanted me to think.
It's been 24 hours and she still hasn't read my message on facebook, about 30 mins after I sent that last message to her a status of hers is posted on fb "Who wants to hangout today?" A few guys comment, she ignores all of them, she's trying to make me come to her. She KNEW I would go and look at her facebook and see this, she knows my interest level isn't very high right now, (despite the fact she's a hot blonde with a tight body), she knows I have game, and if she wants to bag me she has to bust out the big guns.
(continued) a couple hours after I wrote that she repleid to me with a simple little "haha" or some shit acting like she wasn't paying attention or interested in what I said, I let the message be marked read and simply did not reply, about ehh give or take 24 hours after that she likes a status of mine on fb, now I pretty much know for a fact she's not onto my game and falling into my trap, because she's trying to make me think of her and come to her. I will not give her any attention, more than likely she will like several more of my statuses, when she realizes that isn't working, she will begin to comment on them, I'll act like she's not a big deal (killing 2 birds with 1 stone by flexing for all the other chicks who see her trying to get my attention and me not giving a fuck, and also by simply not giving a fuck about her). She will probably break down and message me directly at which point I will take a really long time to reply and act like I'm interested in her, it will fuck with her head because I am not giving her priority, but being nice and acting like I care about her, I am training her that if she wants my attention she will come to me, she is my bitch, and I am in control of her. (end continuation)
I'll continue to add to this as the situation unfolds.
Now she has done a few things to try and build my interest level.
Ignoring me (attempting to make me think "what is she doing"?, does she not like me, etc etc,( the more you think of someone or something the more you are attracted to it), trying to act disinterested, (people want what they can't have easily).
Now this is how I will handle this situation.
I muted her conversation on facebook, and buried her message, and unfollowed her on fb, out of sight out of mind. When she does read and reply to my message (assuming she replies, she may just let it be marked read since I'm not responding to her game). I will simply not read it, and she won't hear from me for a long time,if she's smart she will know I am onto her game and retaliating with my own warning her not to fuck with me, and thus validating myself even further. Or she will fall into my trap, (most females assume we have ZERO game, and are completely oblivious to the shit they do) and likely fall in love with me, at which point I will break her down and continue to plow through all her lines of defense until she realizes the only chance she has to win me over is to give me that pussy, and when she does, I'll either jsut bail and break ehr heart for trying to play me, or I'll keep her on a leash and act like it's slightly working, and when she tries to leverage it and take it away from me, I'll take away that interest I've shown her.
Ok so to recap.
Women want your attention, love, loyalty, resources, and protection.
Don't give them to her easily.
Hold them all above her head and do not BREAK, this is your game.
Alright, I'm done for now, this is essentially the core essentials of being a player, it's shittily written, and I'll def add more onto it.
Feel free to ask questions.
Oh yeah I should point out I use the word 'game' in semi contradicting ways, game can mean status and social proof (I no longer have to validate myself because of the massive amount of female attention I get). Or it can mean head game. Figure otu which is which.
