Thoughts on online or long distance relationships?

Bubba said:

I find your outlook on this subject to be slightly ignorant without a real reason as to why you're against it. I had dated a girl for a year going through freshman to sophomore year awhile back, and you know, it wasn't bad. We had mutual friends IRL and obviously it wasn't some old 50 year old getting off to the idea of whatever the hell they do. I was pretty happy, until I figured out she was just a boring fuck. Since then I've found that if you are to have a long distance relationship, make sure you two genuinely keep each other entertained. As well as, don't wait too long to meet each other. If you wait all too long, once you meet in person it may not ever be the same.

My outlook on this subject is: Do what makes you happy, because at the end of the day if it doesn't affect me I don't care all too much.

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MaapLes said:

Well not as much LDR but online i mean, and in LDR you guys see each other like twice a month.

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Bubba said:

..Well that could of helped a lot if that was included in the OP
My stance still sort of stays the same, as long as you two can talk like usual I don't see whats wrong with it. May not be as fun..but hey man, I can't tell people who to love and not love.

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MaapLes said:

True but i guess on the outside looking in its "weird".

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Bubba said:

It truly is weird from the outside, I currently have a close family member going through the same thing. High school sweet hearts going to different universities. It's hard, but they seem to be able to manage themselves. I can understand your point either way.

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MaapLes said:

Well in a relationship i dont think you have to see each other everyday. how often do they see each other?

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Bubba said:

In person? About 4-7 days out of a given month. They usually spend the whole day with each other as well.

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