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The best thing you can do is keep trying with the settings. It all comes down to personal preference and what you get used to. You may be finding it hard to use at the moment but give it time and I'm sure you will get used to the settings you have.
Otherwise don't know if this will help but if you have a read through this you may be able to identify and change the problems you are having
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