Who is responsible for Childrens habits? Parents or fate?

i think parents just wants their children to make good and build good habits so they shout at them. but i don't think shouting at them gives their children good knowledge. we must provide love to the children to see them good in future.

None of the above, I believe that the behavior of a child is depend upon on the environment he/she involved.And, it depends on the child if he wants follow the right/wrong, cos he/she had her/his own mind whom to follow.

cpriya108 said:

Now adays parents keep shouting at their children and finding faults in them .. but do u think y is this happening to them?...:Ohhhh:

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i'm quite experiencing that part. maybe, i think, that we teens nowadays, spent much of our time with our friends, the computer, with our cellphones, and other gadgets, forgetting to express our love with our parents. having some quality time and some chat with them will reduce this unnecessary quarrels, and wastes of energy. :Smile: LOVELOTS.

It actually depends on how the parents prepared and build their family. If you're parents prepare a good environment for you to live and grow with then there is a great chance for you to inherit the way how they prepared it for you. It is the parents who can greatly influence their children. Why? it's because a child who is seeking attention or presence of their parents mostly the reason why they go for other peer groups or friends. If a parent can provide a good life style, relationship and environment to their children then definitely it will drive in a good place or good results. Raising of child is the hardest task a parent can have and it is the time when children learn how to establish relationship to their parents. Yes it is correct that it was the child choosing for it, but it is also the choice of the parents on how they can bring up their child and can gradually be measured on how responsible they are.

The first impression of child comes from their parent and for whatever psychological traits they might have absolutely came from them. Whatever they see from the parent on how the family works definitely signifies the quality of family a child has. And that quality produces a child to mingle in the society and affect others.

cpriya108 said:

Now adays parents keep shouting at their children and finding faults in them .. but do u think y is this happening to them?...:Ohhhh:

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There is no doubt that the parents are responsible for children's good or bad habits. The parents should instruct their children to develop good habits that will reward them in future.

Parents are the ones who molds their children's habits and attitudes. If they shout at their children, maybe there are situations that leads them in shouting.

Fate has nothing to do with children's habits. Environment may be a factor but mostly, it will depends on how does their parents treat them when they are still young.

Well I think the parents should teach the child good habit when they are small so that they can grow like good character boy but i think every parents try that but what to do all will be not same...

Well, parents are shouting at their siblings because they want them to be disciplined enough to live in this world. Fate doesn't be involved here since it is the duty of the children to obey the orders and teachings of their parents. Well it's just a case to case basis since there are parents who will do good things and some are bad things.

Parents are responsible for their children behavior, usually children learn everything and try to mimic their parent behavior. as the saying change yourself before changing others.

you must be good person first before asking your children to be a good one. please change the way your behavior, the way you talking, the way you handling thing,etc.

i doubt fate has anything to do with it it all depends on the parents and their surroundings or friends

Being a mother, I have to look for ways that would make my children understand me. I have to stress out that what I have been doing and saying is for their own good. But children when they are young are easier to teach. But as they grow older, it's when they try to explore and inch by inch violate my rules. I try hard to be firm, although there are times when I feel like giving up. It's hard to always be cool on things. There are times when you can't help but shout, that was when I was really really out of patience. It isn't cool I know and children don't like it but when real madness get the better of you, you can't help it. But it happens rarely, only when the kids are out of control and you have to rule on top of them.