I have a three year old son, happily settled down with our own house, i work full time and so does the soon to be wife (sound old af but I'm not lol)
In early 2012 my girlfriend had and abortion, it was a very sad time, just to imagine what our son/daughter may have been like kills you, i mean what right do we have to stop a natural process?
We decided upon the abortion due to our financial problems and the situation we were in (drinking, partying, not working, been immature really)
So the right option for us is that we just simply not ready, it wouldn't be fair to bring a child into the world with parents that didn't have there heads screwed on right.
After the abortion it really changed the way we were, in a good way though but still the odd bad memory (maybe more for her as she had to go through the process, and it wasn't the simple abortion she had to give half birth)
Later 2012 approx 10 months after she was pregnant again, i was working, we had made a little home, and was perfect for new baby.
Now shes working, hes in nursery, i drive as well as i passed my driving test, we go to the beach most weekends, life's great.
Moral of the story is you need to be financially stable, good home/flat, and defiantly family support as you will need it.
You wouldn't like a baby to be born in a crack den would you? So sometimes abortion is the only option.
I hope this helped mate.