Girlfriend or Best Friends?

[Michael Scofield]

Hi Swagmates.
I have a problem now but i do not know who to tell about it.
I just want a good advice here.
Is it better to keep your personal problems with your girlfriend?
Or you rather choose your best of friends to tell all about it?
What do you think?

By the way my best friends are not so serious people. But their funny advices sometimes gets me to a point wherein I can say that "Yeah you're right even you're just joking."

IF you don't belive to your girl friend, you dont have a reason to be with her

 

[babychane]

Oh just got a 50% peak o tearfall on my eyes while reading all of your posts.
Today we have met, and i have told her(my girlfriend) all of my problems. I'm surprised the way she reacted. Actually she had not reacted at all. All the time I was telling her all about it, she just looked me on my eyes. I felt how sincere here eyes are. And by the time i'm done, she hugged me really tight and her tears fell down. That's the time i have said to myself that all problems can be resolved with a serious conversation with her. She had not spoken for a long time when finally she opened her mouth and said thank you for me. Thanks for the advice everybody. My case is now resolved. I really appreciate all of your help. Thank you Marketswag! :smile:

Ayieee!!!!Why is it I feel :Love: when you post that message? It's good to know that you follow our suggestions in here. See? She loves you very much by showing that she's ready to listen what ever you say especially if you share some problems. Congratulations mate! Hope that you and your girl will be together always! God bless ^^

 

[jolito098]

Ayieee!!!!Why is it I feel :Love: when you post that message? It's good to know that you follow our suggestions in here. See? She loves you very much by showing that she's ready to listen what ever you say especially if you share some problems. Congratulations mate! Hope that you and your girl will be together always! God bless ^^

Thank you babychane!
I thought you were a boy before. sorry for that.
I know girls are more likely to feel what i feel today.

And what you feel right now is just what i feel today. Uh im repeating the same words lol.

 

[khare1005]

well its hard to answer this.girl friend is also one of your best friends that is why she is close to you.its hard to distinguish between the two.while some of the problems could be better shared with a girl friend,the other could be shared with best friend.as best friend stays in your life from a longer period,they are more reliable to discuss your personal problems.but case may be different for different people and depends upon the level of comfort.

 

[speedy]

Hi,

I would suggest that it is better to tell your girlfriend about it. She will feel mad if she will hear from someone else. I am sure she will give you some advises about it and your burden will be lighten because your love is with you to support you. I trust my best friend but as much as possible your partner is the closest person towards you. On the other hand, I preferred to tell my problems with my mother especially if it is a personal problem because I know she is always a mother. Though we trust our best friend there are instances that they change their minds and attitudes toward us. You can ask advice from your girlfriend first then from your friends or best friend. That's only my opinion. God bless.

 

[inamnilawar]

my opinion in this thread are they two are also be good if they are true if you have a girl friend and it is doing your favour and you trust on him that is very good to you but you have a very good friend then also it is good but they two are also not satisfied to you is better to be live alone
i think that a friend is good as compare to girl friend a girl can break any relation ship ..........

 

[babychane]

Thank you babychane!
I thought you were a boy before. sorry for that.
I know girls are more likely to feel what i feel today.

And what you feel right now is just what i feel today. Uh im repeating the same words lol.

Haha! Why people always think I'm a boy? LOL.. Anyway, you know what? You repeat words because your happy and you just don't know how to express what you really feel. Let your girlfriend feel that you really love her. God bless ^^

 

[jolito098]

Haha! Why people always think I'm a boy? LOL.. Anyway, you know what? You repeat words because your happy and you just don't know how to express what you really feel. Let your girlfriend feel that you really love her. God bless ^^

Maybe you can change your avatar to a pinkish one so that they would know you are a girl
I always make her feel that i truly love her. That's my responsibility

 

[arnelia]

Hi Swagmates.
I have a problem now but i do not know who to tell about it.
I just want a good advice here.
Is it better to keep your personal problems with your girlfriend?
Or you rather choose your best of friends to tell all about it?
What do you think?

By the way my best friends are not so serious people. But their funny advices sometimes gets me to a point wherein I can say that "Yeah you're right even you're just joking."

Problem solved guys!Thanks for all that helped! Im really happy on the outcome

Thanks for the following:
MsRaintree
meriamg27
mixa94
Grumpy
Pikapika102
dvL-den
jethro64
Edward
vignesssh
someday
reymartin69
babychane
plumhunter27
armarasrar1
pritilixious
Michael Scofield
khare1005
speedy

yes you can tell to your bestfriend what is your problem abaout your girlfriend,maybe her opinion well help you a lot.but for me its better if you talk to your girlfrend what you want so she knows it,and also she is your gf you can talk are to her like your bestfriend.

 

[maple]

I know you solved the problem still in my opinion you should share your problems with your girl friend,by that she knows how much importance you giving her in your life..That will help you in your family life..

 

[sommerlive]

Your best friend should always come first, and it seems like your best friend puts you first. If they both care about you, then you shouldn't have to choose one from the other. They both should grow up and show that they care about you. I'm happy you just solved the problem.