How to break without hurting each other?

[TenZero3]

is there such a thing as breaking up with your GF/BF without hurting each other? how can you tell without hurting you GF/BF? what if you're growing apart instead of growing together but still you're holding on to it and trying to make it work though you're hurting with what's going on the both of you.. how to break it to her/him gently? :What::What::What:

 

[jhef001]

is there such a thing as breaking up with your GF/BF without hurting each other? how can you tell without hurting you GF/BF? what if you're growing apart instead of growing together but still you're holding on to it and trying to make it work though you're hurting with what's going on the both of you.. how to break it to her/him gently? :What::What::What:

for me breaking up with my GF is the hardest part in the way that you love each other.

for me breaking up gently is to be still friend with her even though its not easy to move on if we are friends but you can just believe.

 

[babychane]

Honestly, it's our problem too but we are trying to work things out. It's really hard to break up without hurting each other. Even if you just think of separating makes your heart cry. You will think of those precious memories that you shared. Nahhh, it's really hard. Wish that it's so easy to decide on things.

 

[melskie]

is there such a thing as breaking up with your GF/BF without hurting each other? how can you tell without hurting you GF/BF? what if you're growing apart instead of growing together but still you're holding on to it and trying to make it work though you're hurting with what's going on the both of you.. how to break it to her/him gently? :What::What::What:

it is impossible.. you will hurt each other.. my ex-girlfriend want's to break up with me because of religion and she don't want to hurt me. she don't know how to tell me.. but the hurtiest thing that she did to me is breaking up by using facebook.. (

 

[jethro64]

is there such a thing as breaking up with your GF/BF without hurting each other? how can you tell without hurting you GF/BF? what if you're growing apart instead of growing together but still you're holding on to it and trying to make it work though you're hurting with what's going on the both of you.. how to break it to her/him gently? :What::What::What:

for me its impossible to have a break up without being hurt, it would hurt both of you. but you can break up with much less hurt feelings.

but before breaking up, you should think about it carefully, don't make irrational decisions. you should consider if you really need a break up, or you just need a cool off.

if you really think that you need to break up, tell it to your partner first, he/she should know that you're breaking up with him/her. then say it nicely, hope he/she could understand you because you've been together.

 

[MsRaintree]

You see, breaking up is a painful thing to do. But if things are not going quite right and there is no other option but to part ways, you have to do it. It's a part of any relationship. We can avoid it, so all we can do is accept the reality that not all things are meant to last. Anyway, there is a time for healing and moving on. It's just that we really have to pass that hurtful stage.

 

[ladyness]

i think breaking up is just not easy. however you try to do it, there will always be someone who'll get her/his heart broken.

 

[someday]

is there such a thing as breaking up with your GF/BF without hurting each other? how can you tell without hurting you GF/BF? what if you're growing apart instead of growing together but still you're holding on to it and trying to make it work though you're hurting with what's going on the both of you.. how to break it to her/him gently? :What::What::What:

i think while breaking up with someone, one or the both will suffer and it'll hirt. but as you said you guys are drifting apart naturally so i don't think it'll be a hard job to break up and i don't think anyone will get hurt too, in this case. so just meet up with this person and tell him/her that you've noticed things aren't turning the way they should and we would be better off as friends. just try and explain what the truth is, i'm pretty sure the other person will understand it!