Suicidal brother.

[Motion]

I need help. I want to help my brother out. Why because he's my brother. He's stupid he's still my brother. He is only 12 years old aswell. He has very bad anger issues. He always complains he gets picked on in school and says no one likes him. Almost everyday he is in his room crying or just pissed off. He takes out his temper on me and our parents. Then when he gets in trouble he says that none of us love him and says he will kill himself / or grabs a knife. I want to help. IDK how or what to say. Please help!

 

[18+]

Really the only thing you can do is spend time with him. Let him know that even though he might not have friends at school, you will always be his bestest friend. Spending time with him will help a lot.

 

[Sons Of Anarchy]

Really the only thing you can do is spend time with him. Let him know that even though he might not have friends at school, you will always be his bestest friend. Spending time with him will help a lot.

That is one dumb reply.
That is NEVER the only thing you can do.

Here are more suggestions OP:
Talk with him.
Talk with his bullies.
Show him the bright side.
Tell him it'll hurt you & your parents if he kills himself.
Tell him everyone will be in shock if he kills himself.
Stand up for him.
Anger issues go away after awhile, I used to have them myself, when I was around 14, I started to chill down, and I am never angry anymore.

 

[Motion]

Thanks @jeffrey and @"18+" im taking both your suggestions into mind and using them

 

[Fade]

Bro, same thing happened with a relative with me. It was constant, and still happens every now and then mate. Get him to go to counselling, they really help.

 

[Motion]

what have you tried with your relative @fade ?

 

[Difficult]

Make him sign up on fk, he will be hooked on finding a final of every sm like most fags here, and end up staying for ever, or until they get banned for scamming a final sm.

 

[Color]

Talk it through with him. Putting things out there will be beneficial. Spending more time with him won't hurt either, maybe he needs man skills. Lol. I'd also suggest contacting a professional, you and your parents can only do so much.

 

[Motion]

Make him sign up on fk, he will be hooked on finding a final of every sm like most friends here, and end up staying for ever, or until they get banned for scamming a final sm.

or untill he gets scammed then kills himself

 

[Difficult]

or untill he gets scammed then kills himself

Bro he can use me as mm, as long as the deal is under 50$ there isn't a chance i would scam him.

 

[Fade]

what have you tried with your relative @fade ?

I'll drop you a pm mate, it's a bit personal to be blurting out about my relative.

 

[FTP]

Just try to talk to him; play games with him. Or go talk to his bullied and or fight them

 

[Motion]

i would fuck up the kids but i think a 10th grader fucking up a 6th grader sounds worse to police then them picking on my brother. im trying to talk to him about something

 

[Jaii]

My dad killed himself, I know this isn't relatively close to what your thread is about, But explain to him exactly how I feel..

1. Angry Everyday, Because I couldn't do anything to stop it.
2. Try get him to do some kind of fighting sport; Boxing, Kickboxing, Karate whatever you have around you..Get him to get his anger out there..
3. Get him to see a Councillor, People talk so much trash about them, But honestly in the long run they help.

Good luck my good friend.

 

[Motion]

My dad killed himself, I know this isn't relatively close to what your thread is about, But explain to him exactly how I feel..

1. Angry Everyday, Because I couldn't do anything to stop it.
2. Try get him to do some kind of fighting sport; Boxing, Kickboxing, Karate whatever you have around you..Get him to get his anger out there..
3. Get him to see a Councillor, People talk so much trash about them, But honestly in the long run they help.

Good luck my good friend.

thanks and sorry to here about your dad

 

[Jaii]

thanks and sorry to here about your dad

It's fine man, I hope you can resolve your problems.

 

[Itanimulli]

Spend some time with him. Let him know that you will always be there for him.

 

[Richtofen]

Talk to your brother. I wouldn't talk to the bullies, as that might provoke them even more just to see if he will really commit suicide. Tell him that you do love him, and explain to him why punishment is there. Perhaps you need to step in when he is being bullied (depending on if you guys are in the same grade-range), it might show him that you really do care. Honestly, that's all you CAN do. I wish you good luck.

 

[Envy]

Go to his school sometime, hang out with him. If bullies see you hanging around him, they will stop. Heck, even go threaten the crap out of the bullies or cuss the fuck out of them. Tell them you will beat the shit out of them. Don't tell them it is because of your brother, just tell them you think they're annoying as fuck, and that you just need one more reason to hospitalize them. If they don't buy it, tell them to watch their back because you will be there when nobody is watching. If nobody is watching, do something that will not incriminate you. Come up from behind, and make one of them black out. They'll back out. Be a bully to them, and they'll stop being a bully to your brother. But you don't actually have to do anything. Threats themselves should make them back off.

If threats aren't your thing. Then talk to him. Say something along these lines.
"Are you curious what death is like? It's nothing. No thoughts, no dreams, no heaven, it's nothingness in a box buried six feet underground. Okay, so let's say you kill yourself. If you do, you will get what you want. People will miss you, and people will wish they treated you better. You will win. You won't have to deal with anyone else for the rest of eternity, even the people who love you. But our parents and I will be devastated for the rest of our lives. Our lives will be ruined without you because we all love you, and I am your older bother. It is my job to protect you UNTIL I die. You may win, but I will lose. When your gone it won't be long until everybody will forget about you. You will known as the kid who was too weak, and quit living. Do you want to be known as the kid who was too weak? I need to tell you something imporant before you make a choice. You have your entire life ahead of you. Let me tell you something else. You know all of those bullies? Once they graduate, let me rephrase that, if they graduate, they won't get very far in life. It is the people like you, the one's who stick through all the pain and suffering, that are the ones who come out on top, the ones who truly win.
Aren't you curous about what it is like to be in love? It is the most amazing thing any one person can ever experience. It will bring joy to your darkest memories. Love will make you laugh and smile. You will feel like the luckeist man in the world. To be honest, I can't wait till I am in love (if you haven't been yet). You are my brother, and you will always be my one and only brother. I want to see you grow up. I want to see you fall in love. I want to be an uncle one day. Please, please, don't leave me."

 

[ElChapo]

Go to his school sometime, hang out with him. If bullies see you hanging around him, they will stop. Heck, even go threaten the crap out of the bullies or cuss the fuck out of them. Tell them you will beat the shit out of them. Don't tell them it is because of your brother, just tell them you think they're annoying as fuck, and that you just need one more reason to hospitalize them. If they don't buy it, tell them to watch their back because you will be there when nobody is watching. If nobody is watching, do something that will not incriminate you. Come up from behind, and make one of them black out. They'll back out. Be a bully to them, and they'll stop being a bully to your brother. But you don't actually have to do anything. Threats themselves should make them back off.

If threats aren't your thing. Then talk to him. Say something along these lines.
"Are you curious what death is like? It's nothing. No thoughts, no dreams, no heaven, it's nothingness in a box buried six feet underground. Okay, so let's say you kill yourself. If you do, you will get what you want. People will miss you, and people will wish they treated you better. You will win. You won't have to deal with anyone else for the rest of eternity, even the people who love you. But our parents and I will be devastated for the rest of our lives. Our lives will be ruined without you because we all love you, and I am your older bother. It is my job to protect you UNTIL I die. You may win, but I will lose. When your gone it won't be long until everybody will forget about you. You will known as the kid who was too weak, and quit living. Do you want to be known as the kid who was too weak? I need to tell you something imporant before you make a choice. You have your entire life ahead of you. Let me tell you something else. You know all of those bullies? Once they graduate, let me rephrase that, if they graduate, they won't get very far in life. It is the people like you, the one's who stick through all the pain and suffering, that are the ones who come out on top, the ones who truly win.
Aren't you curous about what it is like to be in love? It is the most amazing thing any one person can ever experience. It will bring joy to your darkest memories. Love will make you laugh and smile. You will feel like the luckeist man in the world. To be honest, I can't wait till I am in love (if you haven't been yet). You are my brother, and you will always be my one and only brother. I want to see you grow up. I want to see you fall in love. I want to be an uncle one day. Please, please, don't leave me."

@motion might aswell pull that up on his phone and read it out to him.