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Suicidal brother.

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dui said:
Just try to talk to him; play games with him. Or go talk to his bullied and or fight them

Fight is NEVER the solution, it makes the situation worse.
Bullies are most likely "Alpha males", they have a to big ego. After they got beaten, they'll probably continue and tell ops little brother to get his brother again.
Because he can't handle it himself.
 

Ironhide

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OP, just have a deep conversation with him, maybe even with your parents, let him know he's not alone and that you are there for him no matter what, like everyone else said spending time with him is a very good thing to do, gets his mind off things.
 

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Valiant said:
Go to his school sometime, hang out with him. If bullies see you hanging around him, they will stop. Heck, even go threaten the crap out of the bullies or cuss the fuck out of them. Tell them you will beat the shit out of them. Don't tell them it is because of your brother, just tell them you think they're annoying as fuck, and that you just need one more reason to hospitalize them. If they don't buy it, tell them to watch their back because you will be there when nobody is watching. If nobody is watching, do something that will not incriminate you. Come up from behind, and make one of them black out. They'll back out. Be a bully to them, and they'll stop being a bully to your brother. But you don't actually have to do anything. Threats themselves should make them back off.

If threats aren't your thing. Then talk to him. Say something along these lines.
"Are you curious what death is like? It's nothing. No thoughts, no dreams, no heaven, it's nothingness in a box buried six feet underground. Okay, so let's say you kill yourself. If you do, you will get what you want. People will miss you, and people will wish they treated you better. You will win. You won't have to deal with anyone else for the rest of eternity, even the people who love you. But our parents and I will be devastated for the rest of our lives. Our lives will be ruined without you because we all love you, and I am your older bother. It is my job to protect you UNTIL I die. You may win, but I will lose. When your gone it won't be long until everybody will forget about you. You will known as the kid who was too weak, and quit living. Do you want to be known as the kid who was too weak? I need to tell you something imporant before you make a choice. You have your entire life ahead of you. Let me tell you something else. You know all of those bullies? Once they graduate, let me rephrase that, if they graduate, they won't get very far in life. It is the people like you, the one's who stick through all the pain and suffering, that are the ones who come out on top, the ones who truly win.
Aren't you curous about what it is like to be in love? It is the most amazing thing any one person can ever experience. It will bring joy to your darkest memories. Love will make you laugh and smile. You will feel like the luckeist man in the world. To be honest, I can't wait till I am in love (if you haven't been yet). You are my brother, and you will always be my one and only brother. I want to see you grow up. I want to see you fall in love. I want to be an uncle one day. Please, please, don't leave me."
I really enjoyed reading this a lot, thanks for sharing :p
 

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Well I'm sorry for the situation you're in right now, I've personally had three friends who I've lost to suicide. All I can say is be there for your brother, spend time with him, help him sort out his problems smallest to largest. Don't bring up suicide, make him forget it.

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Man you gotta realize that you're his older brother. He looks up to you and wants your attention more than anyone else. Be his friend and his brother. He will get better just try spending time with him. Good luck.
 

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Jeffrey said:
That is one dumb reply.
That is NEVER the only thing you can do.

Here are more suggestions OP:
Talk with him.
Talk with his bullies.
Show him the bright side.
Tell him it'll hurt you & your parents if he kills himself.
Tell him everyone will be in shock if he kills himself.
Stand up for him.
Anger issues go away after awhile, I used to have them myself, when I was around 14, I started to chill down, and I am never angry anymore.


I second what this user said. I used to be an angry child myself but now i am hardly ever angry
 
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