What is the cause of a broken family?

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I came from a broken family. My mom left us in my lola's care when I was still 5 and my eldest brother was 6, i think. We are 5 siblings. I am the second to the eldest.

To make the story short, I honestly don't know yet the reasons of their separation. My father has his own family and my mother? hmmn, i don't know. We didn't see each other since then. Too many things to say about her but those things were not enough to figure out the reasons of her leaving.

Can you guys figure out the reasons why she left us and until now didn't show herself to us? Thanks in advance!
 
The only way you'll really know is to ask her. As a mom myself, I find it hard to understand, because I would never leave my son, unless I thought I was a danger to him.

My husband and I have had our ups and downs in 20 yrs of marriage, but our 7 year old son comes first and he needs both us of around.
 
i believe it's ego that have do all in this situation. when married came, both have person have their ego. family will stay together until the end if all family member can control their ego and try to understand each other.
 
Most causes of a broken family is that both parents can no longer understand each other. Also, in some cases, character indifferences and physical abuses is the cause why they separate.
 
misunderstanding starts from simple domestic quarrel that grows impertinently damaging the long-forged relationship between the family members. When a couple split up, it is the children that are greatly affected.
 
russhelle said:
I came from a broken family. My mom left us in my lola's care when I was still 5 and my eldest brother was 6, i think. We are 5 siblings. I am the second to the eldest.

To make the story short, I honestly don't know yet the reasons of their separation. My father has his own family and my mother? hmmn, i don't know. We didn't see each other since then. Too many things to say about her but those things were not enough to figure out the reasons of her leaving.

Can you guys figure out the reasons why she left us and until now didn't show herself to us? Thanks in advance!


Before anything else I want to know that you had a very sad story with your family.
But anyway, maybe the main reason is that their relationship failed to grow up. They separated in some reasons that maybe they realized that never love their each other that time.
Or maybe they have difficulty in financial status that's why you and you're brother left to the care of your grandmother.
 
it so sad to hear that rushelle about what happen to your family. did you already ask your father? or maybe your mother cannot accept about what happen to your family thats why she left you and your brothers. rushelle just be strong always. never give up. everythings gonna be alright. think positve :)
 
Obviously the main cause of a broken family is when the parents decide to separate. The reasons may vary but the bottom line is, their decision of not being together anymore results to the break up of their marriage and the family in general.I feel sad about this because the children are greatly affected with the situation since they won't be enjoying the perks and the happiness of having a complete family. However, kids should learn to adapt and be open minded that if their parents' separation leads to a more harmonious and peaceful living even if they are not complete anymore then I guess it is for the best. Children should not see it as their downfall, they should not resent nor get mad. They should not think of themselves less because of this. Hence they should focus more on having a positive outlook in life and think of it as a challenge and test on how they can grow up ending successful and having instead of a complete family of their own unlike what happened to their parents. Lastly they should pray to God because nothing is impossible and permanent. Maybe someday when both parents realize they really love each and other and considered the welfare of their kids then they could kiss and make up.
 
russhelle said:
I came from a broken family. My mom left us in my lola's care when I was still 5 and my eldest brother was 6, i think. We are 5 siblings. I am the second to the eldest.

To make the story short, I honestly don't know yet the reasons of their separation. My father has his own family and my mother? hmmn, i don't know. We didn't see each other since then. Too many things to say about her but those things were not enough to figure out the reasons of her leaving.

Can you guys figure out the reasons why she left us and until now didn't show herself to us? Thanks in advance!

good day, there are many reasons why a couple go into separation like sometimes they found their self that they are unhappy and they are not satisfied to their partner sometimes they found to each other that they are not compatible to each other, and sometimes if their partner was a mama's girl or boy thats why they prefer to leave and sometimes they had falling inlove to the other person.
 
Sorry to hear that you have a broken family.
It's really sad and a hard situation esp if none of your parents are caring for you.
there are many reasons that create a broken family,but most of the reason is infidelity..

I hope that you find peace and forgiveness in your heart.:Smile:
 
The prime cause is the differences in views and ego problems. Then comes infidelity and disbelief in each other. There take place some time a few misunderstandings to make things worse and a good relationship is turned in to areal sour one, avoid them and save your family.
 
there's many factors why 2 couple separate ways. and both of them have their own reason behind. one possible factor is incompatible. incompatibility comes why they are living together thats the time they can realized that they are not meant to be thats why they rather separate ways than to still live together unhappy.
next factor financial problem.
next third party
next jealousy
next inlaws
etc.
all of that factors maybe your parent experienced it. if you want to resolve or let say if you really want to clear all that questions that hiding in your mind try to make a way to communicate to your mother listen very carefully but be sure you are open minded and ready for what ever will possibly happens.thanks
 
there's many factors why 2 couple separate ways. and both of them have their own reason behind. one possible factor is incompatible. incompatibility comes why they are living together thats the time they can realized that they are not meant to be thats why they rather separate ways than to still live together unhappy.
next factor financial problem.
next third party
next jealousy
next inlaws
etc.
all of that factors maybe your parent experienced it. if you want to resolve or let say if you really want to clear all that questions that hiding in your mind try to make a way to communicate to your mother listen very carefully but be sure you are open minded and ready for what ever will possibly happens.thanks
 
russhelle said:
I came from a broken family. My mom left us in my lola's care when I was still 5 and my eldest brother was 6, i think. We are 5 siblings. I am the second to the eldest.

To make the story short, I honestly don't know yet the reasons of their separation. My father has his own family and my mother? hmmn, i don't know. We didn't see each other since then. Too many things to say about her but those things were not enough to figure out the reasons of her leaving.

Can you guys figure out the reasons why she left us and until now didn't show herself to us? Thanks in advance!

lots and lots of confusion and the only thing you can do is to pray and try to make things better on your half of what ever it is you are doing, atleast you are still have father and brother that loves you.
 
russhelle said:
I came from a broken family. My mom left us in my lola's care when I was still 5 and my eldest brother was 6, i think. We are 5 siblings. I am the second to the eldest.

To make the story short, I honestly don't know yet the reasons of their separation. My father has his own family and my mother? hmmn, i don't know. We didn't see each other since then. Too many things to say about her but those things were not enough to figure out the reasons of her leaving.

Can you guys figure out the reasons why she left us and until now didn't show herself to us? Thanks in advance!

lots and lots of confusion and the only thing you can do is to pray and try to make things better on your half of what ever it is you are doing, atleast you are still have father and brother that loves you.
 
Actually, there are lots of reasons why some have broken family. There are instances in life that we don't know why it had happened.

Back when i was just in high school, my parents become separated because of a huge argument, but then years after, good thing that they were able to solved their problem and we're back now already as a whole. So I can see that the main reason behind this situation is because of several misunderstandings within the family.
 
Actually, there are lots of reasons why some have broken family. There are instances in life that we don't know why it had happened.

Back when i was just in high school, my parents become separated because of a huge argument, but then years after, good thing that they were able to solved their problem and we're back now already as a whole. So I can see that the main reason behind this situation is because of several misunderstandings within the family.
 
There are a million of reasons why things doesn't work out the way it should. The best way to get answers is to talk to the people involved, but before doing so its best to be sensitive also if they want to talk about it.
Its wise to learn to forgive and let things go and learn from the experience. Its not easy to do but hey, Life is beautiful :)
 
There are a million of reasons why things doesn't work out the way it should. The best way to get answers is to talk to the people involved, but before doing so its best to be sensitive also if they want to talk about it.
Its wise to learn to forgive and let things go and learn from the experience. Its not easy to do but hey, Life is beautiful :)
 
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