Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on

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Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.
 
arnelia said:
Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.

I see no reason why you should wait for sometime before confronting your GF/BF or partner if you caught them cheating with your own eyes. Confronting doesn't mean that you're going to be violent. Talk like adults and weigh if the explanation is acceptable or not and then decide if you'll save the relationship of part ways.
 
Why all the delay/ I will let them have the fun and will take my own course. I am not the one to have it this way, I am an honest person and want to be that way. I expect the same from others and will never tolerate any thing like that.
 
I guess not. I am a very emotional person and most of the time, my eyes and mouth thinks first than my brain. So, I would rather wait for me to have a moment with the gu.
 
arnelia said:
Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.
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hi good day,for me if i caught my husband hugging that girl maybe i dont give him a chance to explain ,but if i caught him that they are just talked, i think i will confront him first and let him explain.its depend upon the situation.
 
Nobody is perfect, that would I really believe in. If it is her first time, then I will just wait her to repent on her wrong doings and admit it. If she did it on a second time around, that will be the time that I will confront her wrong doings. All of us make mistakes even without thinking of it. Confronting on her first mistake immediately can only lead to more lies. Most of the people have a very high ego. Instead of accepting the fact that they committed a crime, they will turn it upside down just to free themselves.
 
yes i will confront her and ask her explanations :) cause sometimes we dont knew who she with i wont knew if those guyz are just here relatives or what so i'll wait first for her explanation,:Scary-Smile:
 
meriamg27 said:
arnelia said:
Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.
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hi good day,for me if i caught my husband hugging that girl maybe i dont give him a chance to explain ,but if i caught him that they are just talked, i think i will confront him first and let him explain.its depend upon the situation.
Of course mate,if we saw our husband hugging another girl,that is no explanation.im sure we know all of here relative so maybe that not her relative or friends.if will happen to me,maybe i will not control my self!
 
No because I am impulsive I am afraid of what will I do to them. I don't want to be imprisoned because of them. I will think things over to find a better way for revenge.
 
arnelia said:
Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.

It depends on the relationship I have If she is just my girlfriend and I saw that she is really happy with that guy then no need to distract all I want is her happiness. But before leaving her I will tell her the reason so that she will not think that I am the one who broke our promises.

If we are married already chances are I might kill the guy and I dont care if I get imprisoned that is just the same even if I dont get imprisoned my life is already miserable after knowing that she's cheating me. unfaithful :Crying:. I'd rather die.
 
You can't really say what you're gonna do if something like that happens to you. The heart is not ever predictable at all, even if you know yourself very well. I could say I will confront them right away, but if that happens for real, you might just walk away and cry.
 
arnelia said:
Would you confront your GF/BF or PARTNER right away if you caught him/her cheating on you?
For me yes,if i saw it with my two eyes and i give him an opportunity to tell me first, because sometime we also wrong about what we think.so better for them to explain fist.

I bet you can't do the "explain first" thing
when you got caught your BF, say kissing another woman..
Duh, Do he need to explain that??? LOLS..
Say, I'm in that scenario, I would clap in front of them,
laugh and say "OOOPPPS.. I THOUGHT I SAW DOGS, SHooo, GET A ROOM!"
^^
 
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