Your bedtime is 5PM and you know that, kiddo.
If you wanna make yourself a unique and large community, you wanna keep letting people have goals.
On other forums, it can be an achivement just to get into a group, or get an award. It's not like etc. FK and your forum where you just hand out awards to everybody who buys them.
You've made all the classic mistakes, made by those who decides to run a forum without a well thought idea.
In order to keep members, you need to keep them motivated, and happy about the forum.
If everybody have a few awards, and everybody is in a usergroup, what is the actual point of being there? Is there any goals you can aim for?
Why make it to the official news team, when it's shit and there's nothing to write about?
Why apply for a group, when 500 others is already member of it without earning any benefits?
Why is your forum better compared to others? Ask yourself questions, and answer them.
If you decide to open up, and admit where you went wrong, then I will help you.