Is Cyberbullying real?

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What do you mean "is it real?" It's not like it's fake. There's been suicides because of it, it's quote obvious it's a "real" thing. Silly question.

I'm guessing you just worded it wrong. Do I think it's rational to take your own life because of what others say to you online? Of course not, it's silly and preposterous. But some are more emotional and handle things differently.

And your whole little "it's just shapes!" (you mean pixels) argument is a flawed argument because sound waves (from taunting and verbal abuse) are just vibrations.
 

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ultimately you choose to be offended or damaged by words, but sometimes mental illnesses affect judgement and how one perceives insults.
 

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Jamil said:
Is it real? It's just another person typing out words, I don't see how that hurts people.

When you deeply think about it, it's just a series of lines and shapes. I never knew lines and shapes could hurt people so badly.

People can either block a person or just not let it get to them. Opinions shouldn't make you want to take your life. I think cyberbullying is bullshit.​

Yes it is fucking real, end of,
 

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Absolutely.

It doesn't matter whether or not we think people should be offended by others online, it's the fact that they do.
If cyberbullying is not as bad as everyone is saying, why have so many lives been taken because of it?
The thing is, we're all different people and tend to comprehend things differently. As for myself, I've been cyberbullied loads of times throughout my time of being on the internet, and it has never really bothered me. On the other hand, say someone gets bullied in school, they'll must likely be vulnerable to the crude comments and harassment that they would endure during the attack online.
Cyberbullying has been getting worse and worse over time, and without a doubt I think it's real. The victims don't do what they do for attention.

People say that the victim should just ignore the comments along with the attacker, but as Leader said, it's much easier said than done. There are people out there that hear the comments there told often and begin to actually believe them, they sit there and soak in what the attacker says.

Just because what you're saying to someone online doesn't make it any different than saying it to them in person. Whether it's cyberbulling someone you know from school online, or just someone random off the internet, you don't know them. Not many people knew my brother either, and that's why they were as ignorant as the blindness to the whole subject of cyberbulling.
I've had to move 3 different times due to the things my brother had to go through as a kid.

Just a quick little story.
When I was younger I was always playing Halo and my brother was usually in his room watching t.v. Well, one day he went out for a bike ride and my mother and I would occasionally see him come around the block, well we hadn't seen him for about 10 or 15 minutes. My mother was just about done cooking dinner, so she wanted me to go out and get him. Me being as young as I was, I didn't understand much at all. I walked around the block and saw four kids pretty far away, as I got closer I saw one of them was my brother in the middle of a triangle of 3 other boys, crying. These kids wouldn't let my brother leave, all 3 of them sitting there calling him horrible names, telling him to kill himself. I ended up getting him to come home with me, and he started running away telling me to run and that they were going to hurt us, we ended up walking. Again, I wasn't really that smart.. And that's that pretty much.
But seeing your older brother break down like that and see it for years really makes you think about bullying, especially when your sibling tells you that their sucidial.

He got bullied so much so now it doesn't really bother him, but not everyone is the same. Things like that can carry with people throughout the rest of their lives bringing them depression and an endless list of other side effects.

Cyberbullying is the same as bullying but behind a computer screen, and some people don't have the strength to just ignore or block people.
 

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No , just walk away from whatever screen your using & poor . Bullying over.

True, but I do now see why some people find it soo bad. They just can't handle the truth.
 

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Is it real? It's just another person typing out words, I don't see how that hurts people.

Of course it's real. -__- Words hurt people all the time. @Leader can vouch for this ;)

s/o @Lame123
 

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JohnnyG said:
Is it real? It's just another person typing out words, I don't see how that hurts people.

Of course it's real. -__- Words hurt people all the time. @Leader can vouch for this
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s/o @Lame123

I can couch it real.

Ask sherman or abe and ofc leader.

And fivecocks.

Probably many more.
 

Jamil

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Time for all the smart people to hop on a bring their opinions!
 

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from both logical and rational point of views the standard answer is "why don't you just turn the computer off and walk away" but that is so much easier said than done for a ton of people.

example scenario: all of your friends are on facebook so you make one, you end up getting harassed/bullied on there. you block the bully but they're relentless and make account after account to continue their bullying

now a logical response to this would be again, to turn off the computer or close your facebook account etc. but then what? you feel excluded, all of your friends are enjoying this website and you can't because of a cyber-bully. it's not fair, and the person this is happening to is going to care about this even if they're aware of the so-called "solutions" to this issue. It's easy to get sucked in emotionally, even online. This varies from person to person but is a very real thing.

we can connect to people on a virtual level very strongly, watch an episode of catfish lol. what if this cyber-bully is, or turns out to be someone you care about? of course you're going to be emotionally affected.

much in the same way as an online relationship where a connection can turn into love (debatable) which obviously involves strong emotional attachments to a person, I believe the same thing can happen with hate (read: bullies).

yeah it might just be a bunch of lines as you said in the op but them lines mean something and can do some serious damage.

o/
 

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In my opinion, no.

"Oh man, I'm being made fun of.. might as well keep going on the same website."
 

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It's only real when people let it happen to them. Just like real bullying. I've been to middle school, and high school, and never have I been bullied. Because I didn't let myself get bullied. I'm sure people have tried but I didn't give a single fuck, and they stop. This isn't rocket science to understand or avoid...
 

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I get sad easily. I'm autistic, and I do get bullied at my school :/ Its so annoying, and they say stuff like ' Uh your autistic, why do you get special treatment? ' Fucking stupid.. Only because I'm autistic.
 

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Cyber bullying is real... Just because someone making fun of you on the internet doesn't affect you, doesn't mean that it doesn't affect other people. I have never been cyber bullied, and someone on the internet making fun of me or talking shit to me wouldn't affect me personally, because I couldn't give a fuck less, but that's just me. That being said, that type of stuff does affect some people. Just a quick google search and you can find people that have committed suicide over cyber bullying.
Here's one: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/wor...yberbullying-sparks-soul-searching-in-US.html
To say cyber bullying isn't real, in my opinion, is an ignorant statement.

My point: just because cyber bullying doesn't and wouldn't affect me, doesn't mean I can say it isn't real at all.

This post isn't directed towards anyone specific, just in general. Again, this is just my opinion, and I respect everyone else's.
 

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The person being 'bullied' has a choice if they want the other person's words to hurt them.
 

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I didn't bother read everyother comment so my bad if I repeated somebody else.
Bully(n):a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker.
People gain power on the internet from influence, or popularity. As long as the victim has no support, he is practically defenseless against cyberbullies.

YES, CYBERBULLYING IS REAL. It doesn't hurt because of the lines, and words that appear on the page. It hurts because the person writing that, is a real person. I'm going to repeat that. It hurts because a real person is writing hateful things about you. The more people to support that bully, the stronger those words become because of the greater weight they have. Those who would get hurt by words in real life are bound to be hurt by words online. Simply because those words were created by humans.
 

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More opinions on this thread please! I wanna hear the debate.
 

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It's called turning off your computer and not being so obsessed with what random people online think.
 

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some people take cyber bullying very seriously, theres an old saying "The pen is mightier than the sword" or in this case the "keyboard" instead of pen.
 

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Cyber bullying is so ridiculous, I cannot fathom how someone can read something from a screen and feel offended. There aren't any emotions behind the words, and to be quite frank it's some nobody fuckboy on the other side of a screen.... Our society is too butthurt and all about bringing the strong down to a level of equality to the weak, we are lessening the potential of many by pretty much being butthurt bastards about everything... This political correctness bullshit needs to go down the drain in my opinion... Anyways, sorry for the rant but all in all just turn off the computer for fucks sake..
 
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